“It would ruin our friendship.” “I’m afraid of what would happen to our friendship.” “It would get awkward.” “Let’s just be friends.” Do any of these sound familiar? If you have ever been friends with a woman and tried to move things to a more intimate level, you have almost certainly heard these. Possibly even…
Archives for August 2011
No More Mr. Nice Guy
Right. Going by the number of e-mails I’ve recieved, a few of you haven’t quite learned one of the lessons I’m always harping on here at Dr. NerdLove. So it’s time for me to quit coddling you and apply the hob-nailed boot of reality upside your heads. So. Stop me if this Craigslist blast from…
Ask Dr. NerdLove: Head Games
There’s this girl I used to like and still do have a soft spot for. Her and I are very alike and we have very similar interest and a lot of people comment on how much alike we are. We also bicker a lot but can go right back to being friends the next second….
Top 5 Online Dating Mistakes Guys Make
It’s been a couple of weeks since I taught you how to make that first introduction count, and it’s time to take a look at how you’re doing. As I’ve said before, online dating is very much a buyer’s market for women; their mere presence on a dating site is going to trigger an avalanche…
Ask Dr. NerdLove: Why So Serious?
Dear Doctor, I am a geek girl in need of guidance, so any advice you could give would be much appreciated because to be honest, im a little stumped. I have been together with my boyfriend now for 2 almost 3 months, he’s sweet, kind and caring and is a geek himself (video games mostly…
Bachelor Pad or Fortress of Solitude?
It’s time to be blunt, nerdlings. Your bachelor pad is going to fuck up any chances you have of getting laid this weekend. Harsh but true. There is nothing quite as well designed to make sex disappear as the man-cave that doubles as a nerd home. When your girl gets through the door and sees…