We all wish that there were some way to make dating easier. More often than not, though, it can be a long, painful exercise in disappointment. Over the years, I’ve gone through just about every permutation of dating frustration you can imagine – being unable to even talk to women, the dating site emails that disappear into…
Archives for June 2014
5 Times When You Shouldn’t Approach Women
Anyone who reads my site for long enough knows I’m a big proponent of the cold approach. Learning how to approach women, strike up a conversation and charming them into being interested in going on a date with you is a difficult – but important – skill to master. But just as important as it…
Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Stop Getting Over-Anxious About Dates?
Dear Dr. NerdLove, It has been a while since I had a girlfriend and lately I been trying to date more and go outside my comfort zone and ask out girls I am truly interested in. I have my moments just like anyone else , when I least expect it I can pull off making…
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Leveling Up: Look Good In Photos
Do you hate photos of yourself? Well, you’re not alone. Lots of guys hate how they look in photos. God knows I do. I can count the number of photos of myself that I like on the fingers of one hand, and most of those were taken professionally. Most of us would love to look…
How To Deal With Jealousy
Back in the bad old days, I did a lot of things I regret out of jealousy. Pretty much from middle-school onwards, jealousy defined the majority of my waking life. Everywhere I looked, other people had what I thought I wanted in life. Watching happy couples would alternately make me feel lonely and almost sick with envy….
Ask Dr. NerdLove: My Girlfriend Has Too Many Male Friends
Dear Doc, My girl is a labourer, which means she generally works with predominantly males – which also means she makes a lot of male friends. Problem is, I’ve had a lot of bad experience with opposite-sex-friendships in relationships and am suffering some major insecurity issues. I realise this is largely a personal issues, but…
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