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Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Much Is Too Much?

January 30, 2015 by Dr. NerdLove

Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Much Is Too Much?

I’m a 34 year old male. I’ve never kissed, sex, relationship, etc… I don’t mind discussing this with people I know. I feel like because I’m too open about my situation people think I’m looking for self pity. I don’t really, I just want them to know about my situation so it’s not awkward when […]

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Filed Under: Ask Dr. NerdLove Tagged With: ask dr. nerdlove, polyamory, relationships, social skills, virginity

Wednesday Open Thread: Blockbuster Season Edition

January 28, 2015 by Dr. NerdLove

It’s Wednesday, which means it’s time for the Doc to sneak away with the latest copy of Sex Criminals and let the NerdLove interns and residents take over the comment section for their own purposes. OK, it’s nice that Interstellar did well enough to get a sequel but… wait, that’s the FF? Well, with the release of […]

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The New (And Impossible) Standards of Male Beauty

January 26, 2015 by Dr. NerdLove

The New (And Impossible) Standards of Male Beauty

Over the last couple of weeks, some news stories were brought to my attention that illustrate a problem I’ve been observing for a few years now. The first was the latest in a long line of Photoshopping scandals. What made this interesting was that rather than some already-stick-thin female model being slimmed down even further […]

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Filed Under: Masculinity, Society Tagged With: how to look good, male beauty, the beauty myth, toxic masculinity

Ask Dr NerdLove: Is My Girlfriend a Slut?

January 23, 2015 by Dr. NerdLove

Ask Dr NerdLove: Is My Girlfriend a Slut?

Hello Dr. Nerdlove, I am a twenty-year-old girl currently dating a twenty-seven-year-old guy. We’ve been together for six months now, and our relationship has been sexual for a few months. It’s been great, but I wouldn’t be writing if things were perfect. Before this relationship, I was extra virgin. No intercourse or other partnered sexual […]

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Filed Under: Ask Dr. NerdLove Tagged With: ask dr. nerdlove, have better sex, madonna-whore complex, sexual compatibility, slut-shaming, use your words, virginity

Wednesday Open Thread: Good Old Games Edition

January 21, 2015 by Dr. NerdLove

Wednesday Open Thread: Good Old Games Edition

It’s Wednesday, which means it’s time for Doc to slip out the back to the comic store while the NerdLove residents and internists take over the comments section for their own nefarious purposes. This week’s suggested topic: video games. Good Ol’ Games just released a pack of Lucasarts Star Wars games including one of the […]

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