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I’ve been getting a massive influx of traffic lately from a number of sources, and I wanted to say “Welcome” and hope you stick around.

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(And if I may be so bold, with the holidays coming up, the Dr. NerdLove bookstore has a number of excellent gifts for yourself…)

Dr. NerdLove Fan Art!

How bad-ass is this?

Fan and kick-ass artist James Bousema created this kick-ass fan art for me. The man’s got serious skills.

Dr. NerdLove by JamesB

 

Check out more of his art at http://jamesbousema.deviantart.com/

Programming Note

Flight delays mean that today’s Dr. NerdLove will be going up at 10:30 pm at the earliest, assuming I don’t find some free wifi before then

Ask Dr. NerdLove: It’s Just a Little Crush

Doctor, I need your help,

I realize this is going to make me seem like a piece of shit, but whatever. I’ve been married for almost 2 years now, and I find myself with a crush on my coworker. I don’t know how to process this. I know workplace crushes are fairly common, but this is my first crush since I’ve been married. I’m not tempted to leave my wife or anything, but I do find myself flirting with the coworker enough that I would probably feel guilty if my wife saw it if she were to ever drop by my office unannounced. We’re coworkers, so there aren’t any weird supervisor-employee power dynamics at play. What, if any, advice can you give?

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Ask Dr. NerdLove: Because Dating Isn’t Complicated Enough…

I know you advice on nerdy guys getting girls, but what whould your advice be on Geeky guys going for other Geeky guys. I’m bisexual and really have the hots for one of the crewmebers on this feature film I’m working on. I’m in the art department and he’s an asstant director so we rarely are on set together except when we’re at lunch or getting transport from unit base to location.

We are just getting to know eatch orther so I want to simply ask him A: are you gay/bi (some of my friends say he is) B: would you want go for a drink (of course more subtle then the previous statements) and C: if not lets be friends (as he could influnce future employment) 

I know is a risky and probably bad idea but I hope you could help, or simlpy just say be friends and move on. 

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