Dear Dr. NerdLove: I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. He is so caring and thoughtful. He is affectionate and always finding ways to show me he loves me. He splits household responsibilities with me 50/50 and is in many ways my ideal partner, with one exception. My boyfriend has ED….
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Is It Wrong For Me To Even TRY To Date When I’m Not Attractive?
Hey, Doctor. I’ve been on your site for quite a while, and found it super useful and relatable, with plenty of great advice. For reference, I’m a 24 year old male with zero relationship experience. Never had sex, never been in a relationship, never kissed anyone, never even held hands. The most I can say…
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I Just Blew Up My Marriage. Can I Still Save It?
Dr NerdLove, I need some help figuring out what to do, and I will be upfront and say I fracked up and I caused this crisis in my life and I know I was wrong, but I still don’t know what to do next. I need you to do the thing where to tell me…
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Should I Move Just For A Better Chance At Love?
Hello Doc, My first attempt to get into online dating perfectly matched one of my biggest fears about online dating: there’s no one around. The most basic search with a wide distance and age range shows that all the single people are at least 60-70 miles away from where I’m at. And I kind of…
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Help, I’m In Love With A Married Man
Dear Dr NerdLove, About 12 months ago I met a man. I instantly had a crush on him but I didn’t know why. It didn’t make sense. Whenever he was in the office, I was excited to see him. I would express this, thinking that this was just a friendship thing. About 6 months ago…
What Does It Really Take To Find Casual Sex?
Occasionally I get a letter that is less of an entry for Ask Dr. NerdLove and more of an a prompt for a longer form response — something between a Post-Mortem and a typical Wednesday column. This is one of those times. Hello Doc! Well , where can I start? The simple thing is that…
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