Is there any advice out there worse, more trite than “Just be yourself”? It’s the cop-out, default answer to guys who want to get better with women. “Just be yourself!” Well… great. Be yourself. How’s that been working for you, so far? If you’re reading this blog, odds are pretty good that “being yourself” hasn’t…
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Talkin’ Nerdy: Talking about your passions
One of the most frequently asked questions I get is “How do I talk about ‘$GEEKYSUBJECT’ with girls without turning them off?” It’s not terribly surprising that geeks are afraid to talk about comics, video games, anime, what-have-you with the opposite sex; the inability to talk about anything other than geek subjects is a well-established…