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Top 5 Places To Meet Women (…That Aren’t Bars or Clubs)

July 15, 2011 by Dr. NerdLove

It’s Friday, which means once you’re out of class or clocked off the job it’s time to start taking advantage of everything life has to offer you for the next two days.* It’s time for adventure, romance and trying new things. It’s time to get out there and meet new people, new women especially. It’s […]

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Online Dating 101

July 11, 2011 by Dr. NerdLove

The dating site profile. It has ruined the chances of many a man. Here’s how to not suck at it. If you’re going to use an online dating site like I recommended, you need to have at least a vague idea of what you’re doing. Regardless of which site you choose, men outnumber women by factors […]

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What Do You Want?

July 8, 2011 by Dr. NerdLove

So, last week, I asked you who you were. This week, I want to know what you want. No, no. What do you really want? Take a few moments and let the question sink in. This won’t be on the final exam, but it will directly affect the rest of your life. Presumably, if you’re reading this […]

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Who Are You?

July 1, 2011 by Dr. NerdLove

Is there any advice out there worse, more trite than “Just be yourself”? It’s the cop-out, default answer to guys who want to get better with women. “Just be yourself!” Well… great. Be yourself. How’s that been working for you, so far? If you’re reading this blog, odds are pretty good that “being yourself” hasn’t […]

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Talkin’ Nerdy: Talking about your passions

June 24, 2011 by Dr. NerdLove

One of the most frequently asked questions I get is “How do I talk about ‘$GEEKYSUBJECT’ with girls without turning them off?” It’s not terribly surprising that geeks are afraid to talk about comics, video games, anime, what-have-you with the opposite sex; the inability to talk about anything other than geek subjects is a well-established […]

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