Helping Nerds Get The Girl
One of the hardest parts of meeting women is the intial approach. For many men it’s a nerve-wracking enterprise – nobody wants to suffer the indignities of being shot down, especially if it’s in a public space. How’re we even supposed to know if they’re into us or not? Wouldn’t it be so much easier [...]
Some things in life never change. Unfortunately, one of them is the eternal question of “How to do I know if she likes me?” The same question that has plagued geeky boys since junior high has an annoying tendency to follow us all the way through to adulthood, leading to grown-ass men plaguing their friends [...]
Last week we talked about the concept of male privilege. This week, we’re going to take that knowledge and examine how you can put it to practical use. One of the more common problems I see amongst my nerd brethren is a certain lack of self-awareness. Too many guys out there – especially those who [...]
Let’s talk for a moment about incongruity. Incongruity is the act of being inconsistent within one’s self. Incongruity is one of the greatest trouble spots I have seen when geeks are interacting with people. It’s part of the reason why many of you may have found that you’re being off-putting or even making people somewhat uncomfortable when [...]
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