Survive Your Dating Emergencies

"Nerdlove - he don't shiv."

How many of you dread dates – you worry yourselves into a frenzy, imagining all of the ways things can go horribly wrong and picturing a dream date turning into an all-too-real nightmare? Over the years, I have gone on more dates than I can reasonably count. As a result, I have dealt with just about [...]

How To Get A Second Date (By Acing The First)

Of course, you might have had way cooler interviews than I have...

First dates can be stressful. You’re trying to find the right balance of “impressive” but “non-chalant”. You’re stressing where to take her, what to say, who’s going to pay for what and – most of all – do you go for the kiss at the end of the night? Then, of course, if everything goes [...]

How To Get What You Want in Dating

Some people want to live in a Penthouse Forums letter.

I want to talk to you a little about the idea of success and dating. There is no one definition of success when it comes to a person’s love life. We all come into this with completely different goals, goals that may well change over time. One person’s definition may be to fulfill his desire to [...]

What Makes a Man Attractive?

"Sorry guys. Better luck next time."

There are few questions more frustrating than “What’s he got that I ain’t got?” It’s a long-running complaint amongst some men that only “certain” guys get all the women1 – the so-called “alpha males” who are tall, dark and handsome assholes with lantern jaws, fast cars, a six-pack and seven figure salary. All other men [...]

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How Do You Know When It’s Love?

Awwww how adorable!. It'll be that much more tragic when she breaks your heart later on...

A recent letter from one of my readers was a potent reminder of what I was like when I was in my teens. It wasn’t pretty. I was a classic otaku; I was going through the stage where the only things I wanted to talk about were anime, manga and the fact that I wanted to find [...]

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