How To Be A High-Status Man

"You know, when I said you make me feel like we're the only people in the world, I didn't know it was going to be so literal..."

There’s an obsession with the concept of value and status when you’re dealing with men’s dating advice. The idea is that, when you boil everything down, women are attracted to high-value, high-status men; therefore, men who want to be more successful with women should be as high-value as possible. This manifests itself in almost all dating [...]

Leveling Up: Dating Out Of Your League

Yup. There's no way this could possibly be real love. He's got her parents tied up in a basement somewhere.

I’ll be honest: the cultural phenomenon that is Girls has more or less passed me by.1 However, I will absorb the occasional moment from the show through sheer cultural osmosis – usually when it stirs up another controversy that ends up plastered all over the blogs that I steal from  mine for topics read. So while I may be [...]

How to Find the Girl of Your Dreams

That being said, a bookstore that catered to singles would be a license to print money.

A question for you. How many times have you been frustrated with the people you’ve been dating? Seriously. How many times have you been this close to giving up on dating entirely because of bad relationships and worse dates? The toxic exes, the Ones That Got Away, the dates where there’s been no chemistry, the date you [...]

Survive Your Dating Emergencies

"Nerdlove - he don't shiv."

How many of you dread dates – you worry yourselves into a frenzy, imagining all of the ways things can go horribly wrong and picturing a dream date turning into an all-too-real nightmare? Over the years, I have gone on more dates than I can reasonably count. As a result, I have dealt with just about [...]

How To Get A Second Date (By Acing The First)

Of course, you might have had way cooler interviews than I have...

First dates can be stressful. You’re trying to find the right balance of “impressive” but “non-chalant”. You’re stressing where to take her, what to say, who’s going to pay for what and – most of all – do you go for the kiss at the end of the night? Then, of course, if everything goes [...]