Whenever I see people, especially men, talking about their struggles in dating, there’s one myth that comes up over and over again: the concept of who has all the power in dating. It’s never long before someone will bring up how women have all the advantages when it comes to dating. Because women – theoretically…
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This is How You Solve Your Dating Problems
It doesn’t matter who you are, what you do, or what you look like; at some point your love life is going to go pear-shaped – quite possibly messily and all over the place. Sometimes it may only be for a few days or weeks. Other times, you end up in a dry spell that…
This Is Why Dating Sucks for Everyone (and How To Fix It)
Over the last couple of weeks, the Internet has been alive with the sounds of Discourse as multiple videos, TikToks, and columns have covered the latest Worst People In The World who are making dating a misery for everyone. Whether it’s been the hosts of PUA podcast Fresh ‘n Fit losing their minds after getting…
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How To Protect Yourself From a Broken Heart
Doctor’s Note: this column was originally published on 9/18/17 It’s not a stretch to say that dating is something of a contact sport. Signing up for it means that you’re accepting that you might get hurt. Opening yourself up to people means being willing to risk a broken heart. No matter how carefully you plan…
5 Mistakes That Push People Away
How many times has this happened to you: you’ve decided that you’re going to be more social, so you commit to going out more and meeting people in person. However, every time you go out, the night ends the same way: with you going home alone, feeling lower than a snake’s ass in a drainage…
When Is The Right Time To Ask A Woman Out?
Hey Doc, I’m writing to you to get your input into when a guy should ask a girl for a date after initially meeting them. To get a bit of context on myself I’m mid-twenties, not from the USA, never been on a date, etc. I do spend a lot of time online on blogs…