Dear Dr.NerdLove, As long as I can remember, I have always been in love with my geeky/nerdy community, not as just that most of the folks I get to meet are amazing ppl and possess so much knowledge (i have to admit that glasses, passion about literature and all is a huge turn on for…
Communication
Ask Dr. NerdLove: Feeling Used
Hello Doctor, I am a female & I recently got back into contact with an old male college friend. We weren’t BFF’s or anything in college, but we occasionally exchanged jokes with each other until he got a girlfriend (and left me, consequently brokenhearted). I think he could tell that I liked him back then,…
Ask Dr. NerdLove: Night and Day
Dear Dr. NerdLove, I’m a geek gamer girl. I’m dating a geek gamer boy. I use the terms girl and boy loosely since we are in our thirties. We have been seeing each other for about 6 months. This particular relationship is kind of an experiment, since neither of us were looking to be trapped…
Learn From Your Dates
So there was a date back in my wilder days that went spectacularly well. I had been pursuing this one woman – we will call her J – whom I would frequently encounter in the Austin bar and club scene for the better part of five months. While there was always an attraction there – and…
Ask Dr. NerdLove: Right In Front of Your Face
Sometimes, dear readers, I wish I could reach through the Internet and smack some sense into people. This is one of those times… Dear Dr. Nerdlove, I’m hoping you can help me out. I’m 38, a self-porfessed geek, and sadly, very single. I seem to be having a problem involving meeting women, that I can’t…
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: Closed For Business
Got a two-fer for today from my female readers, both asking a variation on the same question… “How do I let guys know I’m not interested?” We’ll start with Not A Prize To Be Won: Doc, As a girl, I would like to know how to be obviously off the market. Uh… let me give…