One of the hardest parts of being on the road to success is the path itself. Becoming the person you want to be isn’t going to be a smooth, easy ride. You are, frankly, going to eat shit pretty damn often before you start to taste victory.
This is actually a good thing. Failure, especially when you’re starting out, means that you’re doing things that are outside of your comfort zone. You’re pushing yourself past your limits. You’re investing the sweat equity now that will lead to the rewards later on. But it can be hard to stay motivated when it feels like you’re just getting your ass beat while you try to get better. Becoming someone worth dating can be a long, frustrating journey, and it’s very easy to get demoralized.
But if you want greater success in your dating life, you’re going to have to have the mental strength to endure. Here’s how you develop a mindset for success that will keep you going through the hardest times.