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Paging Dr. NerdLove Episode #52 – How To Conquer Your Fear of Rejection

November 2, 2017 by Dr. NerdLove

Paging Dr. NerdLove Episode #52 – How To Conquer Your Fear of Rejection

Let’s say that you’re out – maybe you’re at a party, maybe you’re at a bar, maybe you’re killing some time between classes and you see somebody who is just amazing. They may be a perfect stranger, they may be someone you’ve had a crush on for a long time, who knows. All you know […]

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Filed Under: Podcasts, Self-Improvement Tagged With: confront your fears, dating, dealing with rejection, fear of rejection, Meeting Women, podcasts, rejection, youtube

A Man’s Guide To Improving Your Emotional IQ

October 23, 2017 by Dr. NerdLove

A Man’s Guide To Improving Your Emotional IQ

Emotional intelligence is one of those traits that tends to be woefully underdeveloped in men. Call it part of the toxic masculinity package; when things like “having feelings” are treated as a weakness, men are taught to bottle them up and pretend they don’t exist. It’s not terribly surprising. After all, what’s the first thing […]

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Filed Under: Emotional Intelligence, Level Up, Self-Improvement Tagged With: emotional intelligence, empathy, feelings, level up, meeting people, self-improvement, understanding women

How To Not Be The Office Creep

October 16, 2017 by Dr. NerdLove

How To Not Be The Office Creep

Over the last week, more reports about Harvey Weinstein’s history of sexual assault, harassment and coercion have dominated headlines in the news and conversations on Twitter. One of those conversations happened to revolve around the Buzzfeed article “What To Do With ‘Shitty Media Men’?” which discussed an anonymous Google spreadsheet being shared that named men […]

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Filed Under: Emotional Intelligence, Self-Improvement, Uncategorized, What Not To Do Tagged With: boundaries, creep, creepers, Don't Be A Creeper, harvey weinstein, sexual assault, sexual harassment

What Does It Take To Be A Better Man?

October 9, 2017 by Dr. NerdLove

What Does It Take To Be A Better Man?

It has been a long, long couple of weeks. There’s been seemingly no end of revelations, discussions and open not-so-secrets about supposedly “good” men who’ve been turning out to be far less than they’ve claimed to be. Each disclosure of bad behavior from people long thought to be allies seems to tip the next domino, […]

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Filed Under: Masculinity, Men Behaving Badly, Self-Improvement Tagged With: be a better man, masculinity, positive masculinity, self-improvement

This Is Why Women Won’t Date You

September 25, 2017 by Dr. NerdLove

This Is Why Women Won’t Date You

Last Tuesday, The Federalist – a conservative news organization that seems to devote at least a third of its coverage to lamenting that women won’t sleep with them – decided to publish the hottest of hot takes: that women who refuse to give it up to conservatives are why Trump won. And to be fair: he’s […]

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Filed Under: Relationships, Self-Improvement, Society, What Not To Do Tagged With: dating, federalist, incel, men behaving badly, mgtow, red pill, relationships, what not to do, why women don't want to date you

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