The Numbers Game (Or PVP: Player vs. Prude)

"Hey, is this the queue for Splash Mountain?"

I’ve been on vacation for the last couple weeks, enjoying some fun in the sun in the south of France. This, unfortunately, has meant spending a LOT of time in airports and on international flights where the only inflight movie was Twilight: Breaking Dawn Part 1 – the Breakening.This, in turn meant that it was [...]

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What Does It Mean To Be A Man?

AKA: "Why the fuck is this guy getting more tail than me?"

Give love advice to dudes for long enough and eventually you come up on the question of “What does it mean to be a man?” At first, this question may sound like basic Philosophy 101 material, the same sort of intellectual masturbation that we think is, like, soooo deep after a couple of joints or [...]

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The Madonna-Whore Complex and You

"You *know* we have the better parties too..."

Hey Jenny, Jenny Why are you crying? There’s a beauty of a moon in the sky But I guess when you’ve been leading such a sheltered life You never lift your head and look so high The process of getting better at dating and relationships – especially for men – is a tricky one. As [...]

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Ask Dr. NerdLove: A Question of (Life)Style

Hi, doc. I was wondering if there was some advice you could send my way regarding the dating scene.  Let me start off with some context.  I am currently a college freshman nearing the end of the year and I have followed much of your advice over the last several months.  I’ve improved my wardrobe, [...]

Performance Anxiety

It kinda looks like this in your head.

Today we have a question that I think has wider applications than the standard Ask Dr. NerdLove. The letter writer in question has a number of issues and concerns that are actually incredibly common amongst men, and I feel that this is worth exploring in depth. So let’s get started. Hi Doc, I’m a big [...]

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