Simplified Dating

"Hey it's me. I know we just said good night but I was wondering... how soon do you think is TOO soon to talk about being exclusive?"

Pardon me while I drop something painfully obvious on you: Dating is complicated. Now, before you roll your eyes at me and reach for the “back” button on your browser, let me explain where I’m going with this. The components of dating – where to meet people, how to get to know them off a [...]

The Art of Social Calibration

"Look, this is fascinating but can it wait? I have some calibrations of my own to make."

I’d like to clear up an issue that – going by the comments both here and on the Facebook page - a lot of guys are having. A lot of guys seem to have hit a sort of information overload when it comes to worrying about coming across as creepy. They may have read about behaviors [...]

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Read Her Signs (Without Reading the Tea Leaves)

You may also notice the sudden appearance of floating hearts and cartoon birds.

One of the hardest parts of meeting women is the intial approach. For many men it’s a nerve-wracking enterprise – nobody wants to suffer the indignities of being shot down, especially if it’s in a public space. How’re we even supposed to know if they’re into us or not? Wouldn’t it be so much easier [...]

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Get The Sex You Want

Get The Sex You Want

So the other day, one of my exes was hitting me up for some relationship advice  ((And this right here is likely the most unbelievable thing I have ever written)). She and her boyfriend were having issues connecting sexually. They were amazingly compatible in just about every area of their relationship except sex. The sex [...]

Anatomy Lesson: Breaking Down a Successful Approach

Oh god, I'm not going to have to pretend to like country music, am I?

Over the last year plus, I’ve given you a lot of tips on where to meet new and interesting singles, how to make the approach, how to banter and flirt, how to get their number and what to do when you’ve got it. Today, I want to talk to you about how to put it [...]

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