Helping Nerds Get The Girl
So we’re talking about chemistry – that ineffable ”spark” that theoretically you either feel or you don’t when you meet someone. The idea of chemistry-as-fate, this moment when two compatible people meet has taken on the level of myth in our culture. It’s become another way of saying “love at first sight” or “soul mates”… the idea [...]
Ask anyone “What are some of the most important parts of a date?” and one of the most common answers you will get is “Chemistry”. Of course, when you ask them to describe chemistry, you’ll hear a mix of inconclusive – and fairly unhelpful – answers: “It’s… you know. That spark.” “That intensity.” “That feeling…” “That moment [...]
There is probably nothing more stress inducing, more nerve-wracking or fear-sweat triggering than the first kiss. Outside of “How do I meet girls?”, “when should you kiss her” is easily the most common dating question I get. It’s an area where just about everyone feels some sort of anxiety because there are just so many unknowns oh my [...]
Dr. NerdLove is on vacation this week. Rather than just giving you nothing but dead air or running a “Best Of” column, I bring you this excellent guest post from my friend, confidant and occasional provider of much needed corrections: Kira. When we left off on Part 1, we were talking about how to flirt [...]
Dr. NerdLove is on vacation this week. Rather than just giving you nothing but dead air or running a “Best Of” column, I bring you this excellent guest post from my friend, confidant and occasional provider of much needed corrections: Kira. Kira, the floor is yours. Bringing the Boys to the Yard Flirting is a [...]
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