Whenever I think of charismatic people, I can’t help but think of my friend Bert. Bert is a working actor in Hollywood and easily one of the most magnetic individuals I’ve ever met. He’s a larger than life person – literally, the man’s a goddamn giant – who has the gift of making everyone who meets him…
Skills
Fix Your Flirting
There’s an old saying I find appropriate when it comes to meeting women: “no plan survives contact with the enemy”. That is: no matter how much you may have mentally rehearsed approaching that brunette with the librarian glasses at the party who seems to keep giving you the eye, or you’ve been thinking of how…
Instant Charisma
One of the oldest questions that everybody in the self-help/relationship advice circuit gets is “I like this person, how do I get her to like me?” Now granted, there are a myriad number of answers ranging from the obvious – “try using your wit and charm” – to the arcane – “Take her through the…
The Art of Social Calibration
I’d like to clear up an issue that – going by the comments both here and on the Facebook page – a lot of guys are having. A lot of guys seem to have hit a sort of information overload when it comes to worrying about coming across as creepy. They may have read about behaviors…
Read Her Signs (Without Reading the Tea Leaves)
One of the hardest parts of meeting women is the intial approach. For many men it’s a nerve-wracking enterprise – nobody wants to suffer the indignities of being shot down, especially if it’s in a public space. How’re we even supposed to know if they’re into us or not? Wouldn’t it be so much easier…
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Get The Sex You Want
So the other day, one of my exes was hitting me up for some relationship advice ((And this right here is likely the most unbelievable thing I have ever written)). She and her boyfriend were having issues connecting sexually. They were amazingly compatible in just about every area of their relationship except sex. The sex…