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Are You Headed Towards A Breakup?

Over the course of your love life, you're going to have to deal with a breakup. Sometimes you'll see the breakup coming a mile away like an oncoming train and you'll realize that there's no getting around it. It's going to happen and the only thing left to do is to brace yourself and try to figure out how to make it not suck as much. But then there are the breakups that … [Read More...]

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Ask Dr. NerdLove: Help, My Lifestyle Is Hindering My Dating Life

Hey Dr. NerdLove, I am 26 years old and have been hard on myself for being (mostly) single for the past few years. Many aspects of my life are great. I have a great … [Read More...]

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Wednesday Open Thread: Alien Day Edition

It's Wednesday, which means it's time for the Doc to take off and nuke the infestation site from orbit. ((It's the only way to be sure.)) Meanwhile back home, the … [Read More...]

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Ask Dr. NerdLove: Why Can’t I Get Off?

Doctor's Note: I'm at PAX East this year! If you're coming to PAX, make sure to come to my panel: Video Game Romance - The Stories We Love, The Lessons They Teach at 8 PM EST in Arachnid Theater! And now, your letters.  Hi, Doc: I am in a nearly perfect … [Read More...]

Wednesday Open Thread: Doc’s Con Schedule Edition

It's Wednesday, which means it's time for the Doc to lock up the office and get ready to ship up to Boston. Meanwhile the NerdLove interns and residents are taking over the comments section for their own nefarious purposeses! This week's suggested … [Read More...]

How To Handle Dealbreakers

Every relationship is a matter of compromise. Nobody gets 100% of what they want in a partner; you get anywhere from 60% - 90% and round up because they're just that worth it. But while some things on our dating wish-list are "It would be nice if," others are … [Read More...]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: Am I Giving Off The Wrong Signals?

Hey there Doc I'm a long time reader and I was hoping you could lend your expert advice on a issue I've been having for sometime. So little bit of backstory for most of high school and the early years of college I was the typical nerd. I was quiet, smart, … [Read More...]