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How To Read Body Language

Being able to read body language is a powerful tool to have in your social toolbox. After all, meeting people can be pants-shittingly intimidating at times. You want them to like you. Sometimes you want them to like you like you. You don't want to end up annoying them, creeping them out or otherwise fucking up meeting a potential new friend or partner. At the same time, you … [Read More...]

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Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Change My Feelings?

Hey Dr. NerdLove, I’m writing to you anyways because I really need your help. I’m actually pretty ashamed of my problems too. I despise the way I think and feel, … [Read More...]

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Wednesday Open Thread: Summer Memories EditionT

It's Wednesday, which means it's time for the Doc to wax his board and head out to catch some waves. Meanwhile, the NerdLove interns and residents take over the … [Read More...]

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Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Keep My Cool?

Hi Doc! First of all, thank you for all your work, it's really interesting and I've been kind of addicted to reading your articles since I found out about them! I'm a 21 year old Computer Science student from Portugal and I don't really have a specific … [Read More...]

Wednesday Open Thread: Best Year for Movies Edition

It's Wednesday, which means it's time for the Doc to slip down to the basement where he houses his personal movie theater. Meanwhile the NerdLove interns and residents take over the comments section for their own nefarious purposes! This week's suggested … [Read More...]

Build Up Your Emotional Resilience

When it comes to improving your dating life, there's one thing that will help you more than anything else: emotional resilience. Emotional resilience, put simply, your ability to withstand, adapt and overcome adversity. It's what lets you stare rejection in … [Read More...]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Confront My Father?

Hello Doc, Unfortunately, I think I need to talk to my father about porn. I'd really rather not, but I think this might be a real problem. I both live and work with my dad because I am a loser. My dad runs his own business and is well known for giving losers … [Read More...]