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Ending Sexual Harassment In Geek Culture

Ending Sexual Harassment In Geek Culture

I want to run a quick question by you. Which of these do you think is an appropriate reaction to art criticism of a piece of art you enjoy? A: A discussion about the differences in styles and desired effect by the artist with an eye towards the commercial viability of the property, exaggerations of form consistent with a dynamic image and the difference between … [Read More...]

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Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Recover From A Break-Up?

Hey Doc: So I've recently gotten out of a relationship at the beginning of February. And it's been a disappointment, but I've been doing my best to move on. This … [Read More...]

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How To Last Longer In Bed

Your No-BS Guide to Lasting Longer In Bed

One thing I've learned over the years - both through my own experiences and from coaching others - is that men are all quivering bundles of anxieties and … [Read More...]

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Getting Space In A Relationship

  There are certain phrases that chill the marrow when you hear them in the context of a relationship. "We need to talk," of course, is the great grand-daddy of them all, along with "where do you see this going?". But few phrases ring in our ears like … [Read More...]

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Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Tell My Boyfriend He Scares Me?

Hi there Dr. NerdLove, I’m a geeky girl who needs some help figuring out how to bring up an awkward topic with her boyfriend. I noticed your site is very sex positive, so I thought you might be able to give some advice from a non-judgmental … [Read More...]

One that can lead to *other* full-body activities.

How To Be An Amazing Kisser

A lot of men's anxiety when it comes to women is performance based. Men tend to be worried - especially when they're relatively inexperienced with respect to dating - that they're not going to measure up. It's the fear that they'll have come so far and … [Read More...]