Simplified Dating

"Hey it's me. I know we just said good night but I was wondering... how soon do you think is TOO soon to talk about being exclusive?"

Pardon me while I drop something painfully obvious on you: Dating is complicated. Now, before you roll your eyes at me and reach for the “back” button on your browser, let me explain where I’m going with this. The components of dating – where to meet people, how to get to know them off a [...]

The Value of Field Experience

"At least you'll never leave me, Internet Pornography..."

When this goes up, I’ll be a guest at AggieCon 44 - my second con as a dating advice professional, giving a talk to attendees about dating for nerds, and it’s been giving me some time to think. I’ve been writing this blog for going on two years now. There’re nearly 400 articles, posts and occasional snarky asides [...]

Are Your Beliefs Holding You Back?

Fuck you, subconscious!

So AggieCon was last weekend and they made the mistake of graciously invited me to be their Internet guest of honor and to run a couple of panels. The crowds were excellent, new friends were made and a great time was had by all; I’d definitely be interested in coming back next year. Hopefully I didn’t make [...]

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Change Your Attitude: How Your Mentality Affects Your Love Life

"You see? This guy gets it. You gotta be money and know you're your money, baby! Now let's get some cocktails."

I’ve noticed something lately. Something surprisingly common, especially amongst geeky guys. Especially among geeky guys who’re trying to get better at dating. There’s a lot of you venting your frustration about your dating lives, in your letters to me and in the comments on the blog. You’ve been taking my advice. You’re approaching the women you’re [...]

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