Take It Like A Man

"Your heartfelt pleading has made me realize just how attracted I am to you," said nobody, ever.

If you go by a lot of the advice being handed out to guys about dating, you would think that getting dates and getting laid is simple: act as alpha as possible, remember that women are gold-digging, status-climbing whores who only want the highest status males (and will ignore, use and/or cheat on everyone else) [...]

The Value of Your Social Circle (Or: Embrace The Friend Zone)

"So Cathy tells me you have this trick with your tongue. Mind showing me?"

One of the things that sends people looking for dating advice online is trying to make the already stressful process of dating easier. Everybody’s always looking for the silver bullet, the magical process that will transform you from nerd to natural instantly and bring sex swimming to your door without effort… and unfortunately, it doesn’t [...]

The Attraction Plan

"No, no, you want to go up from there... right, like the prow of the boat."

A lot of guys, it seems, wish that dating had more in common with video games. After all, with games, you ultimately know what to expect. The nature of the medium dictates that if you spend enough time paying attention, you will start to recognize certain patterns; once you’ve correctly identified these patterns, you can [...]

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Anatomy Lesson: Breaking Down a Successful Approach

Oh god, I'm not going to have to pretend to like country music, am I?

Over the last year plus, I’ve given you a lot of tips on where to meet new and interesting singles, how to make the approach, how to banter and flirt, how to get their number and what to do when you’ve got it. Today, I want to talk to you about how to put it [...]

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Don’t Let Your Fear Hold You Back

"Yeah, thanks Doc. I really needed to relive high-school all over again."

I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will [...]

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