Ask Dr. NerdLove: Help, I Can’t Sleep With My Fiancé

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Doc, I need your help: My fiancé and I have been together (quite happily) for almost 6 years and we are more in love with one another now than we were in the beginning. However, we have not been able to have sex for the last 2 years. I have a condition called vulvodynia which […]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: Do I Have To Choose?

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Dear Your Doctorship, I was hoping you might help me out from the lady side of the spectrum with a few tips for approaching nerd-inclined men. I have a great boyfriend. He’s a smart, nice person who listens to me, is generally up for my crazy schemes, and can put on a fantastic “that’s so… […]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: Does She Really Want To Be Just Friends?

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Doc, I need your help. So I recently met this girl at a Halloween party, we hit it off and I ended up making out with her before she left the party. So far so good. The next day, not wanting to repeat the mistakes of the past of being unclear with my intentions sent the following […]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Can I Be Less Awkward?

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Dear Dr. Nerdlove How can I be less awkward with friends and acquaintances? My case is of awkwardness is an oddity in my mind. On one hand I have next to no problem doing long presentations in class ( last week I did a solo one that took 15 minutes) but on the other is […]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: Should I Break Up With My Friend?

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Hi Doc, I am a woman and my male friend and I have been friends for 8 years. For a few years we had fallen into a pattern of cuddling on my or his bed, something that made me uncomfortable, because I don’t really like cuddling, and I had told him that, but he didn’t […]