Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Fix A Clueless Communicator?

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Hello Dr.NerdLove, I’ve got a communication situation that I’m hoping you can give me some advice on. I’m poly, happily married and have been dating my boyfriend for three months. My boyfriend is sweet, smart, cute and we have a lot of fun together. I feel comfortable and safe when I’m with him (which does […]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Get Over Her?

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Doc, I’ve got a problem. A big problem. I’d call it one-itis, just to give it a label, because that’s what it is. A little background: I’ve been spending a fair amount of time lately with a particular woman (Lets call her… Denna) who is pretty much everything I could ask for in a partner […]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: I Cheated, How Do I Make Him Go Away?

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Dear Dr.NerdLove,  So here’s my story: I’ve been in the US for a study abroad for nearly 5 months now and I have a friend-who-is-a-boy (as opposed to a boyfriend). He’s very cute, friendly and I’m quite interested in him but the problem is that he has a girlfriend. Making matters more complicated is that my friends just told […]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Can I Meet Women On The Job?

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Hi Doc, I read your piece about asking for help, and it really struck a chord with me, because last year I was diagnosed with depression. The good news is that I’m getting counselling and medication to help me with the issue, and shortly after the episode that led to the diagnosis I met someone […]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: The Proper Etiquette of Facebook Stalking

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Hey Doc, I have a dilemma. I’ve been lacking courage with women in my life, and been taking steps recently to have more courage and take action to go talk to women I’m interested in. Yesterday, I took one of these steps. I went to talk to a performer of the improv show I went […]