Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Learn To Date?

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Hi Dr. NerdLove, So, I’m a 25-year-old woman in a weird place in my dating/sex life right now. For a long time, I thought I was a lesbian, until about a year ago when I dated a guy. Unfortunately, I was so anxious about how to be good in a relationship/sexual with a guy, I kind of […]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: Should I Forgive and Forget?

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Hey Doctor NerdLove, Im contacting you because I need a non-biased opinion about my situation. It’s about my ex who pushed me away, then broke things off via text, then apologized three weeks later. Can’t ask friends or family because they will obviously side with me and just hate on her. So, first thing I […]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Know When It’s Abuse?

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Hey Doc, I’m a 28 year old straight female who just got out of a 10 year emotional and physically abusive relationship and I realize that a lot of relationship advice hindered my ability to leave. I woke up to the fact that what I was experiencing wasn’t “normal” and was able to extricate myself […]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Can I Stop Hating Myself?

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Hey Doc, I’ve been a fan of your website for a while now, and a lot of what you  write really speaks to me. I was wondering if you could help me out with an issue I’ve been having. I am, by all objective accounts, a pretty attractive guy. I’m a little on the short […]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: Women Prefer My Hot My Friend Over Me

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Dear Doc The other night I was out with two of my good friends at a local bar that had live music going on to celebrate my birthday. The three of us were dancing and enjoying some drinks and I noticed a cute girl a few feet away from me by herself dancing really enjoying […]