Ask Dr NerdLove: Is My Girlfriend a Slut?

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Hello Dr. Nerdlove, I am a twenty-year-old girl currently dating a twenty-seven-year-old guy. We’ve been together for six months now, and our relationship has been sexual for a few months. It’s been great, but I wouldn’t be writing if things were perfect. Before this relationship, I was extra virgin. No intercourse or other partnered sexual […]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: A Kink Too Far

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Hey Dr. NerdLove, I keep getting to the same problem very quickly with every guy. As I fear it is kind of a circle I’m not sure where to begin. I do not feel like I need much sex (but probably I’m mistaken, you’ll see later on). Penetration is “bearable” at the best times, but […]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: Help We Have TOO MUCH Sex

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Dr. NerdLove, I’ve managed to get myself into a difficult situation and could use some advice on how to deal with it. I recently found your site and have been impressed with the no-nonsense advice you give and your mission to make men better at dating. After all, what I’m after advice on is how […]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Move On?

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Dr. NerdLove, I’m in a rut. The most serious relationship I’ve had to date ended in late January, 2014. It lasted just shy of two and a half years. It’s now December 2014 and I can’t move on. I started the relationship as an out and proud gay man. I started the relationship the same […]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: Can We Make Long-Distance Work?

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Dr. NerdLove, I’m facing a situation that I’m sure quite a few of your readers are starting to think about right now, and thought I’d reach out for advice. It’s about to be the start of the second semester for many seniors in college. For most guys, this is the perfect window of opportunity for […]