Hello Doc! I have a problem and I feel very stupid asking this but… the girl I’m currently dating use to date a bodybuilder and, well, I’m not muscular. That alone triggers my alarms; why would a girl who dated a guy with perfect body want to date me? I can not offer her a…
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Can I Be Friends With My Ex When I Still Want Them Back?
Dear Dr. NerdLove: So, I’m in a spot that feels like sitcom plot, and I’m trying to fight my way out of wanting to behave that way. My partner broke up with me, and I’m still in love with them, but also we want to stay friends and I have no idea what that, or…
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How Do I Stop Feeling Ashamed of Being A Virgin?
Dear Dr. NerdLove: I came across one of blog forums, and thought it may be beneficial to reach out to you. I’ve been getting a lot of shit from my family, mainly siblings and stepmom, about still being a virgin. I’m a 19 year old male coming from an extremely religious household. I was super…
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I Went From “Not” to “Hot”. Why Is It STILL Not Enough For Me?
Hi Doc, TL;DR: used to be a nerdy loser, recently got my life together because of my fiancé, tempted to use my newfound powers. I’ve been stuck in this strange situation for some time and I’m trying to figure my way out of it. To cut a long story short, I’m 33. I spent the…
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How Do I Stop Bullying Myself?
Hello Doc, This is how my mind works when I see an attractive woman I want to talk to: “Hey, my coworker is pretty cute. I wish I could get to know her more.” “She’s in a different department, how could I talk to her?” “If I were to go up to her for no…
How Can I Help My Hopelessly Single Friend Find Love?
Dear Dr. NerdLove: I have known my best friend (40/m) for most of my life. He and his family have stepped up and supported me through so many difficult times; he is my daughter’s godfather and helped me raise her when I was a single parent. We live in a communal house, and just bought…
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