Dear Dr NerdLove My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for about 3.5 years and we’ve been through a lot together and I like to think it’s a pretty solid relationship overall. However in the last year our sex life has suffered, namely because I haven’t wanted it or enjoyed it. Sorry to…
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How Do I Get Over My First Serious Heartbreak?
Hey Doc, I’ve been watching a number of your videos lately, and they’ve been a great help to me so far. However, I’m finding that I’m in a situation at the moment that I don’t think has been covered so far, and I can find very little help dealing with it specifically. The game changer…
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How Do I Become More Attractive to Women?
Hi Doc, For the last month and a half or so, I went on some dates with a girl (who we’ll call L, for the purposes of this letter) who I met through Bumble. I really liked her, as we have similar tastes in music (which is uncommon among people my age), and it was…
Why Don’t I Want To Sleep With My Girlfriend?
Hello Dr. NerdLove: I’m a man in my early thirties. Growing up throughout my adolescence and, until I was around 25, I didn’t had any kind of sexual or even a casual relationship with any woman. I didn’t go to parties or any kind of social events, my job was menial and going nowhere and…
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How Can I Avoid Falling In Love With My Friend?
Heya Doc. This letter was spurred by your recent column about letting folks down gently. My question is related but separate: how do I keep a relationship platonic when the romantic interest is mutual? For some context: I’ve recently met this lovely person with whom I have a great deal in common, including stated romantic…
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What Does My Taste In Sex Partners Say About Me?
Doctor’s Note: today’s question deals with issues of race, white supremacy and sexuality. Needless to say: racist and homophobic comments are not welcome and the mods and I will be paying attention. Dear Dr. NerdLove: I’m a young gay man in his 20’s, and although I’ve had a sometimes rocky start to life (like many…
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