Ask Dr. NerdLove: Let ‘Em Down Easy

Dr Nerdlove,  I know this blog is mostly geared towards geeky guys, but I’m a geek girl with a problem. I’m super attracted to geeks, mostly because of the whole similar interests thing. As you have said sometimes geeks are shy, I’m pretty shy too, but I’ve finally gotten to the point where I am [...]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: No Strings Attached.

Greetings Doctor, I have been reading the material on your blog for a while now. I really appreciate finding someone who knows so much about how it is like to be me. I am a 41 year old man who has a bad case of oneitis (co-dependent obsession) since I was still a teen. I [...]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: Failure To Communicate

Dear Dr. Nerdlove, There’s a nerd guy in my social circle (we see each other mostly at gatherings that are commenced by a couple of our mutual friends, as well as on a couple of different Internerd platforms through which we follow/friend/circle each other). I’ve been interested in him for several months now. I know [...]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: Taking It Slow

You just did an blog post about asking geeky guys out, but I have a specific question about that.  I’m a geeky girl in college, a gamer, very socially active, and generally a direct person.  I’ve been asked out a few times at parties and I’d like to switch things up by asking (other geeky) [...]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: An Old-Fashioned Kinda Guy

Ya gotta help me, Doc.  It seems I have run into a problem. I’m a late comer to the dating scene. I started out having my “girlfriends” set me up with some of their friends. To me, I feel like we really hit it off. But when my “girlfriends” fill me in. it always seems [...]