Your Attitude Controls Your Dating Success

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I want to talk to you about your attitude. There’s one commonality I see over and over again among people who have the hardest time dating: they have shitty attitudes. You’ll see it in the way they talk about others, about themselves, about women and the whole process of dating. Everything is pointless, nothing is […]

5 Things Men Do That Make Them Less Attractive

Bonus points if you can do a passable Kit Harrington impression.

Attractiveness is a tricky beast. It’s tempting to assume that attractiveness is summed up by your looks; throw together some perfect abs, teeth like chicklets, rock-hard pecs, a swimmer’s body and a symmetrical face and you’re good to go. But being attractive is far more complicated than that. Physical good looks can certainly help (and the definition of […]

These Self-Limiting Beliefs Are Holding You Back

"Oh cool, so I've finally succeeded at something."

Here’s a secret a lot of dating coaches won’t tell you: most of your dating problems are in your head. This isn’t to say that they don’t exist – it’s that most people’s sticking points tend to be the result of self-limiting beliefs. And the crazy part is that we tend to want to keep them. In fact, more […]

Make The Right First Impression

"Wait, you're saying women get just as nervous about meeting guys? That's crazy! "

Making a first impression is incredibly important. It’s one of the most important parts of acing a job interview. It’s vital for networking and learning how to maximize the utility of your social circle.  In fact, it’s not exaggerating to say that making the right first impression with someone will make or break your relationship with […]

5 Rules To Make Dating Easier (On Yourself)

5 Rules To Make Dating Easier

We all wish that there were some way to make dating easier. More often than not, though, it can be a long, painful exercise in disappointment. Over the years, I’ve gone through just about every permutation of dating frustration you can imagine – being unable to even talk to women, the dating site emails that disappear into […]