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How To Not Be Creepy

March 28, 2014 by Dr. NerdLove

How To Not Be Creepy

As Creep Week comes to a close again and we all start to feel like it’s safe to get back into the dating pool, I want to talk about the fear of being labeled “creepy”. There are a lot of people – mostly the socially inexperienced – who worry about being called “creepy” by women and […]

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Filed Under: Self-Improvement, What Not To Do Tagged With: attitude, behavior, creep week, Don't Be A Creeper, self-improvement, what not to do

It’s OK To Be Single

February 17, 2014 by Dr. NerdLove

It’s OK To Be Single

Friday was Valentine’s Day – or as I like to call it, “the Holy Day of Lover’s Obligation” , which of course is an absolutely miserable time to be alone. Whether you’re trying to co-opt it with a cutesy “Gal-entine’s day” or “Pal-entine’s day”, an anti-V-day party or just sitting at home hating the world, […]

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Filed Under: Relationships, Self-Improvement Tagged With: attitude, be a better person, being single, relationships, self-improvement

5 Simple Ways To Jumpstart Your Life

January 24, 2014 by Dr. NerdLove

5 Simple Ways To Jumpstart Your Life

One of the hardest things  about self-improvement, especially when you’re trying to fix your dating life, is feeling like you’re getting nowhere. Now to be fair, change takes time and more often than not, you’re trying to overcome the habits of a lifetime… but that’s cold comfort when you can see that new life waiting […]

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Filed Under: Self-Improvement, The Basics Tagged With: attitude, be a better person, cognitive bias, confidence, positivity, self-improvement, willpower

Redefining Failure

December 13, 2013 by Dr. NerdLove

Redefining Failure

I’m a failure. And I’m ok with that. There are a lot of things I’ve failed at.  I’m a failure as a professional artist and photographer. I’m a failure as a comic publisher. I’m sure you could probably find plenty of women in my past who would quite happily tell you that I’m a failure […]

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Filed Under: Relationships, Society Tagged With: attitude, failure, negativity, self-limiting beliefs

Be The Greatest Lover She’s Ever Known

November 25, 2013 by Dr. NerdLove

Be The Greatest Lover She’s Ever Known

Considering that we live in a post Sex And The City world, where vibrator sales are the new Tupperware parties and women are more empowered than ever to pursue their own sexual pleasure, it’s tempting to think that men and women have finally leveled the playing field when it comes to casual sex. Women are […]

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