He works a minimum wage job, never finished college and lives at home. He’s also an emigrant from a third world country and supporting his family. How can he stop feeling inferior to the accomplished and educated women he dates?
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Dear Dr. NerdLove: I (M/26) in a reasonably large American city, and I am trying to get seriously into the dating scene. I looked around your site and your post about The Grimes Test has left me feeling down about myself since it drives home something I’ve known about myself for a while. I’ve got…
Ask Dr. NerdLove: Is Dating Too Hard For Men?
I’m 29M, from a European country. I’ve got a good career path (in training to be a doctor). I also have an introverted personality (more like crippling social anxiety when I was younger, but residency forced me out of this). I’ve never had luck with attracting women and have never had a girlfriend or a…
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Why Do Women “Never Feel A Connection” With Me?
Dr. NerdLove, I have a few hang ups around relationships that I’ve tried to work through, but haven’t made any headway on in years. The big, number one thing at my core is that throughout my whole 20’s, I’ve learned more and more that there is nothing innately interesting or appealing about my personality. It’s…
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Live Like You Give A Damn – The Lessons of Anthony Bourdain
Like a lot of people, I have some complicated feelings about the death of Anthony Bourdain. As a general rule, I don’t usually have much to say about celebrity deaths other than “Man, that sucks.” But a few, a precious few, manage to hit me like a hammer to the chest. Those are the ones…
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Paging Dr. NerdLove Episode #57 – How To Tell Amazing Stories
Being interesting isn’t just about knowing things or having done incredible things. You also want to be able to share those experiences with others. Most of us don’t think about the way we present ourselves to others – not just in how we look or how we act, but about why people should want to get…
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