Hello Doc, long time reader here. I think I have an unusual problem. I’m a cis, straight, white guy who during my teenage years (I’m 22 now!) used to be a Nice GuyTM, didn’t care about presentation and didn’t have many (if any) female friends. I want to make emphasis on how much some of…
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Episode #151 — The 5 Things You Need to Know To About Dating
The #1 reason why so many men struggle with dating is very simple: they don’t know what it takes to be successful with women. Attraction isn’t a checklist; having all the right “stats” isn’t going to magically make you attractive to women. Learning to succeed with women isn’t about having the right car or the…
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Episode #132 — The Secret To Being Successful With Women
Here’s something nobody will tell you about being successful with women: nobody is “naturally” good with women. Nobody is born with an instinctual ability to get dates. Everyone — people who seem to be naturally gifted and people who learned later in life — all developed their skills the same way. That’s why all the…
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Become Someone Women Want To Date?
Hi Doc, I’m a 22 years old student and I’m currently facing difficulties in my social life. Until the past 1 or 2 years, I was living a very asocial life. Even though I’m an introvert, I managed to get back on my feet quickly and I’m pretty happy with my progress. The problem is,…
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Paging Dr. NerdLove Episode #41 – How To Avoid Self-Sabotage
It’s hard to admit, but often we are our own worst enemies when it comes to solving our dating issues. We get torn between wanting to fix things and resenting that things need to be fixed in the first place. And that tension makes it almost impossible to improve because it keeps you from doing…
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Level Up: Change Your Life (And Make It Stick)
Last week, I talked a little about what it takes to become someone worth dating – the holistic changes to your life that make you a desirable potential partner. However, trying to make those changes isn’t going to do any good if you fall off the wagon immediately. Think of it like your New Year’s resolutions to…
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