Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Fix A Clueless Communicator?

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Hello Dr.NerdLove, I’ve got a communication situation that I’m hoping you can give me some advice on. I’m poly, happily married and have been dating my boyfriend for three months. My boyfriend is sweet, smart, cute and we have a lot of fun together. I feel comfortable and safe when I’m with him (which does […]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: Is It Time For A Divorce?

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Dear Dr. NerdLove: My wife and I have been married for 3 years now. From the very beginning we had an amazing sex life. Our relationship has always been very sexual, pushing the envelope and sex has always been a big part of my life. We have a 2 year old son together now and […]

How To Introduce Kink Into Your Relationship

Say what you will about her writing, E.L. James has single-handedly put braces on the children of hand-cuff manufacturers around the world.

Kink is becoming a hot topic again.  50 Shades of Grey‘s movie adaptation opening on Valentine’s Day weekend has put bondage and kink and James Dornan on the front page of magazines and blogs all over again, while shameless knock-off factory Asylum is tantalizing nerds by casting Charisma Carpenter in Bound1 Meanwhile sex shops around the country are […]

These 5 Conversations Will Save Your Relationship

5 Conversations That Will Save Your Relationship

How well do you know your partner? Oh sure, you’re reasonably sure that she’s not secretly a Deep One or an intelligent tapeworm wearing that body like a flesh-suit… but how well do you sync on the make-or-break issues? If you’re like most couples, you may not actually know. Many couples are very quick to assume that they’re […]

How To Deal With Jealousy

How To Deal With Jealousy

Back in the bad old days, I did a lot of things I regret out of jealousy. Pretty much from middle-school onwards, jealousy defined the majority of my waking life. Everywhere I looked, other people had what I thought I wanted in life. Watching happy couples would alternately make me feel lonely and almost sick with envy. […]