Hello Dr NerdLove! I have an issue of, I guess, becoming less of a nerd. Let me explain: I (31f) have been married to my partner (35m) a few years now. When we started dating 7 years ago, we shared a lot of traits. Our best year together was when we lived abroad, worked in…
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How Do I Tell My Girlfriend I’m Ready To Try Her Kink?
Doctor’s Note: today’s column deals with talk of sexual assault in the context of people pretending to not consent to sexual activities. What’s up, Doc? I’m a 25 year old male, and I’m dating a 24 year old woman, we’ve been together about two months so far, and it’s mostly been very positive. We have…
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Our Relationship Had An Unhealthy Start. Can We Ever Move On?
Dear Dr. NerdLove, I really need your help. I’m going through mental anguish over the past and I’m at my breaking point. Here is my story: One day, all of my longtime friends deserted me out of the blue. They told me they didn’t want to be friends anymore and that was it. To this…
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How Do I Get Over My Virginity Anxiety?
Doctor’s Note: Hey NerdLovers! It’s a new year and I want to help start 2021 off on a positive note. So I want to hear from you: what are some of your relationship wins? How have you improved your personal life, your friendships or your romantic relationships? What are some of the ways you’ve made…
Why Won’t My Husband Treat His Mental Illness?
Hello Dr. Nerdlove, I first want to express my appreciation for the work you do in helping people become their best versions of themselves. I saw one of your YouTube videos explaining your journey with diagnosis and treatment of ADHD, so I’m hoping you can give me some insight into what my husband is going…
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Why Don’t I Enjoy Sex Anymore?
Hey Doc, To start with thanks for all the work you do, the advice you give is always appreciated! I would love to get your thoughts on something that’s been bothering me for awhile. I was a virgin through most of my 20’s, until I was in a long term relationship with a great woman….