Ask Dr. NerdLove: Why Do These Women Ditch Me For Other Guys?

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Hey Doctor Awesomepuss, really love your blog. I keep encountering this same issue with girls that I take on dates or girls who have expressed a certain degree of interest in me. The issue is they run off with other men in front of me. Examples: I took a girl swing dancing a few weeks [...]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Stop Getting Over-Anxious About Dates?

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Dear Dr. NerdLove, It has been a while since I had a girlfriend and lately I been trying to date more and go outside my comfort zone and ask out girls I am truly interested in. I have my moments just like anyone else , when I least expect it I can pull off making [...]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Can I Date When I’m Dying?

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Hey Doc, About eight years ago, I was diagnosed with a brain tumor. It’s recurred about four times since. Doctors throw out the words “inevitable” and “incurable” when talking about my tumor, especially when talking about its recurrence. As a result, I effectively have an expiration date. Not necessarily a scheduled death date, but a [...]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: Is It Too Late To Fix Things?

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Doc, I need your help: My boyfriend and I are relative newcomers to the idea of enthusiastic consent. Unfortunately, this realization came five years into our relationship. And the last two years have been spent trying to put humpty dumpty back together again. Well, really they’ve been spent just trying to understand what the hell [...]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Long Should I Wait For Her?

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Dear Dr. NerdLove, I’m struggling with a bit of a dilemma. I’m a divorced 47 year old man and in the last two years since the divorce, I have another 10 month relationship and have been out on a number of other dates. I feel like I’m over my ex-wife and am ready for another [...]