Ask Dr. NerdLove: Could I Have Saved This Relationship?

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Hey Doc, Okay, so I have a situation where I got involved with a girl who’s last relationship was abusive (emotionally and physically). We’d both just moved into college (neither of us is a freshman), off campus, second night we hooked up. That night, when we talked, she seemed very interested in making it into [...]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: Is My Girlfriend a Gold-Digger?

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Dear Dr. NerdLove, I’ve have been dating my girlfriend for about four months now. It was some sort of non-official “valentines day” here in my country yesterday and we went to a bar to grab something to eat. of course I paid the bill. I pay the bill 97% of the time. Anyway, my girlfriend [...]

Anatomy Lesson: When Persistence Pays Off

A little persistence can go a long way

There’s an important rule when it comes to self-improvement, especially when it comes to dating: some things can only be learned from experience. It’s easy to get caught up in dogmatic rules, but time and experience can teach you when exceptions arise. For example: I’m a big believer in the efficient use of one’s time [...]

How To Demonstrate Value

How to demonstrate value

Last week’s Ask Dr. NerdLove brought up a question that I hear from a lot of people: how do you keep a woman’s interest in you instead of all of those other guys out there? And the answer is actually fairly simple: you show your value. Now, I know a few of you are recoiling because this sounds like some [...]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: Why Do These Women Ditch Me For Other Guys?

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Hey Doctor Awesomepuss, really love your blog. I keep encountering this same issue with girls that I take on dates or girls who have expressed a certain degree of interest in me. The issue is they run off with other men in front of me. Examples: I took a girl swing dancing a few weeks [...]