Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Start Dating Again?

Hi Doc: I am much older than your typical reader but I really like the advice you give. I am getting back into dating at 51 and I really think I don’t know what the fuck I am doing. I was married for 13 years with him for 15. I took a while to get […]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: Guest Expert Edition

Hey everyone, Doc here.  This week, we’re doing something different.  As on Monday, instead of my dispensing the dating advice, we’re have have a guest expert taking the reigns for today. Loretta Jean is a writer, artistic director and -unlike me – on track to an actual doctorate and she’s here to take your questions. Let’s do […]

Your Attitude Controls Your Dating Success

I want to talk to you about your attitude. There’s one commonality I see over and over again among people who have the hardest time dating: they have shitty attitudes. You’ll see it in the way they talk about others, about themselves, about women and the whole process of dating. Everything is pointless, nothing is […]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: My Boyfriend Won’t Look For Work

Dear Doc, Let me start by saying I’m a lucky woman – I’ve found someone kind and considerate, who makes me laugh and is entertaining and charming and who comes in to snuggle me before I go to bed even if he’s not going to sleep himself. There’s just one big problem – he has […]

Post Mortem: No Love In The Club

This week, we’re returning to an older feature I call the Post-Mortem. Every once in a while, I’ll get a letter that requires going a little more in depth. Sometimes it’s about opening up the corpse of date or relationship that’s gone and and identifying the cause of death. Other times, it’s about trying to cut through layers […]