Take The Hit: Getting Over Your Fear of Rejection

OOOH, right to the self-esteem!

One of the hardest things about getting better at dating is that you have to learn how to take the hit. Back in high-school, I started studying martial arts; Tae Kwon Do and Kenpo primarily. As much as I’d told people that I was learning it for the self-discipline and the focus it taught me, […]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: Why Won’t He Date Me?

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Hello, Dr. NerdLove. I am an 18 year old British female. In July I met a 21 year old Canadian male whilst travelling. He took me on a couple dates and we went to Rome together for four days and nights. We slept together a lot and visited lots things and ate out each night. […]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: Is Age More Than Just A Number?

Ask Dr. NerdLove

My good doctor, After 13 years of marriage, I find myself divorced and single again at 40. After making sure I was okay with myself after a year I started opening up to the idea of dating again. I joined some dating sites and started going out again. When I was out at the Apple […]

What’s Really Wrong With Nice Guys – Entitlement, Nerds and Neanderthals

One thing you learn quickly in the dating advice business: some topics are more or less evergreen. And with the recent explosion on social media, it’s a good time to talk about one of my favorite topics: Nice Guys. After all, what better way could we ring in a new year than by looking at […]

Simplified Dating – LIVE!


Normally on Fridays I’d have a new Ask Dr. NerdLove for you, but this week I have something special. Last year, I gave a talk about my philosophy on the most important parts of dating for Nerd Nite as outlined in my book, Simplified Dating. Now I’m able to bring it to  you as well with […]