How To Be An Amazing Kisser

One that can lead to *other* full-body activities.

A lot of men’s anxiety when it comes to women is performance based. Men tend to be worried – especially when they’re relatively inexperienced with respect to dating – that they’re not going to measure up. It’s the fear that they’ll have come so far and worked on so much just to get in the game in the first place… but [...]

How To Make Friends (When You’re Out of College)

And nothing kills the awkward like watching Brock Lesner bash a dude's face in.

Today I want to talk about a topic that’s come up before in my column over at Kotaku – something that a lot of people have issues with. So stop me if this sounds familiar. You have a tight group of friends. Maybe you were the tightest of bros when you were in college. Maybe you’ve [...]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: Relationships, Grad-School Style

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Hey Dr NerdLove, this seems like the right place to ask for advice… I’m a graduate student, so dating isn’t something that I get a lot of time to do. And ignoring the fact that dating within your own department can be treading on thin ice, there are only 3 other dudes in my department [...]

The Economics of Sex

The Economics of Sex

Sometimes the universe decides I don’t have enough rage in my life. OK, perhaps I should explain. No is too much. Let me sum up. One of the dating misconceptions that I tilt at regularly is the myth that women are the sexual gatekeepers and that sex is a transactional procedure where a woman only [...]

New From NerdLove Industries: Simplified Dating


Normally I’d give you my traditional rant about Valentine’s Day, but this year I wanted to do something different. Something that a lot of you have been asking for for a while now. That’s why I’m thrilled to announce my new ebook: Simplified Dating, available exclusively through Normally it’s $4.99, but for today only, [...]