What’s Really Wrong With Nice Guys – Entitlement, Nerds and Neanderthals

One thing you learn quickly in the dating advice business: some topics are more or less evergreen. And with the recent explosion on social media, it’s a good time to talk about one of my favorite topics: Nice Guys. After all, what better way could we ring in a new year than by looking at […]

Simplified Dating – LIVE!


Normally on Fridays I’d have a new Ask Dr. NerdLove for you, but this week I have something special. Last year, I gave a talk about my philosophy on the most important parts of dating for Nerd Nite as outlined in my book, Simplified Dating. Now I’m able to bring it to  you as well with […]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: Does She Really Want To Be Just Friends?

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Doc, I need your help. So I recently met this girl at a Halloween party, we hit it off and I ended up making out with her before she left the party. So far so good. The next day, not wanting to repeat the mistakes of the past of being unclear with my intentions sent the following […]

What Couples Can Learn From Gomez and Morticia Addams

I’m not a fan of love stories. I realize this sounds odd coming from someone who teaches people how make others fall in love with them, but stay with me for a moment here. The most famous, beloved love stories of all time all end in the death of one or both of the lovers. […]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Talk About My Past With My Boyfriend?

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Hello Doc, I have a question regarding the appropriate time of disclosure pf past sexual trauma in a new relationship. I was molested as a very young girl: the appropriate timing of sharing my story with new friends and more-than-casual acquaintances is apparent to me in the moment, but I have struggled over when to […]