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Ask Dr. NerdLove: My Anxiety Is Hurting My Social Life

January 19, 2018 by Dr. NerdLove

Ask Dr. NerdLove: My Anxiety Is Hurting My Social Life

Hey Doc,  I’ve had an occasional history of depression and anxiety, and in the last few weeks, these feelings have become a lot more common. I’m a 26 year old virgin who’s never had a girlfriend, so I want to improve socially to the point where I can eventually get married. However, I’m a college […]

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Filed Under: Ask Dr. NerdLove Tagged With: anxiety, ask dr. nerdlove, dating, depression, emotional intelligence, getting ghosted, ghosting, mental health, social anxiety

Paging Dr. NerdLove Episode #62 – The Trouble With Aziz Ansari

January 17, 2018 by Dr. NerdLove

Paging Dr. NerdLove Episode #62 – The Trouble With Aziz Ansari

(Content Warning: Sexual Assault) Normally I don’t do too many episodes about current events in the news; I tend to save that for the blog. But recently I had a lot to say on Twitter about the situation with Aziz Ansari and as it turns out, I’ve got more to say. The issue with Ansari […]

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Filed Under: Men Behaving Badly, Podcasts Tagged With: asking for consent, coerced consent, consent, dating, enthusiastic consent, podcasts, rape culture, sexual assault, sexual consent, what not to do

Ask Dr. NerdLove: Should I Take My Ex Back?

December 29, 2017 by Dr. NerdLove

Ask Dr. NerdLove: Should I Take My Ex Back?

Hey, Doc. About 4 years ago i met this amazing woman in the gym we were both attending in Paris. She was extremely kind, empathic, caring and everything one hopes to find in a S.O. We started chatting and within a month we were dating. I was still a virgin when i met her (aged […]

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Filed Under: Ask Dr. NerdLove, Emotional Intelligence Tagged With: ask dr. nerdlove, cheating, dating, emotional intelligence, insecurity, jealousy

Post Mortem – Will We Ever Be More Than Friends?

December 25, 2017 by Dr. NerdLove

Post Mortem – Will We Ever Be More Than Friends?

On occasion, I’ll get a request for advice on a situation that’s more layered and complex than a typical Ask Dr. NerdLove question. These questions typically need a deeper dive into just what went wrong – a dating Post-Mortem if you will. So come up to the lab and see what’s on the slab. It’s […]

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Filed Under: Advice, Ask Dr. NerdLove, Emotional Intelligence, Friendship, Uncategorized Tagged With: ask dr. nerdlove, dating, friend zone, gay dating advice, nice guys, post-mortem, the friend zone

Ask Dr. NerdLove: What Are The Rules Of Threesomes?

December 22, 2017 by Dr. NerdLove

Ask Dr. NerdLove: What Are The Rules Of Threesomes?

Hi Dr. NerdLove, Thanks for existing. My bf and I had a threesome with a woman and it was good for our first time. I wasn’t attracted to her, but I knew he was and I wanted to give us the experience since we’d been fantasizing and talking about it for two years. So the […]

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Filed Under: Ask Dr. NerdLove Tagged With: ask dr. nerdlove, confidence, dating, nice guys, non-monogamy, open relationships, sex, threesomes

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  • The Mikey Yeah, you’re not wrong. I’ve developed multiple crushes on various people over the years for sure and acted upon a few of them. Right now though, I’m having a really hard time since the crushes...

    Episode #74 – How To Escape The Friend Zone ·  April 27, 2018

  • Robert Grumpypants The dead bird bit was pretty good.

    Episode #74 – How To Escape The Friend Zone ·  April 27, 2018

  • Robert Grumpypants A male friend once observed that the reason the "friendship zone" is bullshit is because men put women they regard as unattractive into the same zone, then bitch about the zone. That said, trying to...

    Episode #74 – How To Escape The Friend Zone ·  April 27, 2018

  • The Mikey Yeah little social snafus like that happen all the time. It’s typically not a big deal, I’m awkward, clumsy and as you say, human. Silly little snafus where I flub a word or two aren’t a big...

    Episode #74 – How To Escape The Friend Zone ·  April 26, 2018

  • Ney For what it's worth, I think crushes are a good driving force for introspection and getting off our backsides (or just taking showers). Oneitis is a crush that became toxic. Slow progress is still...

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