He met an incredible woman and fell for her fast. She can’t love him the way he wants and it hurts. Can he learn to fall OUT of love with her?
emotional intelligence
I Love My Boyfriend. So Why Do I Have Feelings For My Co-Worker?
Her new coworker is personable and a good listener and he’s cute. Now she’s worried because she’s starting to catch feelings… and she has a boyfriend.
What should she do?
Can I Be Vulnerable With Others Without Getting Hurt?
Hey Doc I saw your column “Finding Strength Through Vulnerability” and honestly it kind of low key irked me. In my experience with vulnerability (with both men and women) has brought me literally nothing but pain, rejection, humiliation and extreme self hatred. I taught me that the world is crap and people are shit. That…
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How Do I Rebuild My Social Life Without Facing My Ex?
Hey Doc, I’m 46 and genderqueer. I used to be active in the local BDSM scene. It’s where I met my last sexual partner. It’s an old story: started as friends with benefits, I fell in love and she didn’t, and my heart got broken. I left the scene, not wanting to see her again. …
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How Do I Build Chemistry With The Women I Date?
Dear Dr. NerdLove: Near the end of the summer, one of my friends really pushed me to try online dating after he met his then-gf. At the tail end of August, I created a Hinge profile and to my surprise I was getting matches within a week. A lot of women were drawn to my…
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How Do I Get Over My First Break Up?
Dear Dr. NerdLove: I’m twenty-four years old and I went through my first break up about 6 months ago. She was basically my first everything, and it has pushed me into a really depressive state. Not only do I have to see that person every day, we are in the same graduate program, I also…