Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Start A Threesome?

Interesting situation here, Doc. I’m a 26 year old bisexual lady and I have this friend (who I’ll call ‘Friend’) who I’ve been hanging out with for about a year and have gotten pretty close to. I always thought Friend was really beautiful but I had immediately filed her under “Attractive but married – look […]

The Man’s Guide On How To Smell Better

One of the most important things that you can do when you’re trying to improve your dating success is also one of the most simple: you want to smell better. Scent is one of the most under-appreciated aspects of attraction. Our sense of smell is incredibly powerful and affects us in ways that we’re often […]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: Am I Too Fat To Date?

Dear Doctor,  I’m not really sure how this works, but a girl in my econometrics class referred me to you. You’re also the only dating coach not on a hate group watch list.  I guess I’ll start with some background and follow with my problem. I’m am 23 and in my last semester of college. I […]

Five Quick Ways To Improve Your Looks

Contrary to the way pop-culture portrays us, men tend to be very anxious in their physical appearance. In fact, most of us are painfully insecure about it. Very few people are truly happy with how they look. No matter how objectively attractive any of us may be, when we look in the mirror, all we can see is […]

How To Upgrade Your Wardrobe… Without Going Broke

As the long, hot summer days come to an end, it’s time to start the semi-annual adjusting of your wardrobe – moving your summer clothes into storage (or at least the back of the closet) and pulling out your fall and winter gear. This is actually one of my favorite times of year – I love […]