Dear Dr. NerdLove: I (M/26) in a reasonably large American city, and I am trying to get seriously into the dating scene. I looked around your site and your post about The Grimes Test has left me feeling down about myself since it drives home something I’ve known about myself for a while. I’ve got…
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What Men Need to Know About Flirting
As more and more people get vaccinated against COVID, we’re all starting to step back into the world again. Just as importantly, people are ready to try to jumpstart their love lives again after a long, frustrating and lonely year of enforced solitude. And while there’s going to be an adjustment period as we all…
Help, He’s Afraid Of Flirting
Dr. NerdLove, This will probably needs some context. First, I’m polyamorous; I’m married, have a long-term girlfriend, and still occasionally go out with new people. Everyone knows and consents, it’s all ethically done, and it’s going great. The second important part is that I was raised in the evangelical tradition of purity culture; more specifically…
Episode #129 – 3 Tips For Flirting Like A Master
DR. NERDLOVE MERCHANDISE: https://nerdloveacademy.com/shop/ One of the biggest reasons why people have a hard time flirting successfully is that they don’t understand how flirting is supposed to work. But when you understand the overall philosophy of flirting, you’re in a much better position to fine tune your flirting style to one that works for you…
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Episode #100 – Is She Flirting or Just Being Friendly?
How do you tell the difference between when someone’s flirting with you and just being polite? And why are we so bad at telling the two apart in the first place? SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: How men and women both misjudge flirting behavior in others Why “Straight Dude Thinking” gets in the way of flirting success Why…
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Should I Respond To Being Ghosted?
Hey Dr. NerdLove, Been reading your stuff for awhile and it’s been really helpful. I’m a 28 year old male that’s been in a dating drought for about 3 years now, but this summer has been quite a bit different. So I’ve gone on a couple dates with a girl from work over the course…
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