We talk a lot about the importance of developing your social skills. However, one of the mistakes I see people make over and over again is how often they focus on the flashier skills; the ones that seem bigger or more impressive. People will, for example, get hung up on all the possible ways of approaching someone at…
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What Is Chemistry? Part Two: Emotional Engagement
So we’re talking about chemistry – that ineffable “spark” that theoretically you either feel or you don’t when you meet someone. The idea of chemistry-as-fate, this moment when two compatible people meet has taken on the level of myth in our culture. It’s become another way of saying “love at first sight” or “soul mates”… the idea…
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