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Understanding Creepiness

January 8, 2018 by Dr. NerdLove

Understanding Creepiness

Creepers. The word alone fills the mind with vivid images – both of Minecraft bad guys and of dudes waiting along running paths to harass and stalk young women. Bring up the topic of creepers and you’ll get dozens of women sharing stories of having been creeped on – enough to make you realize that almost […]

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Filed Under: Emotional Intelligence, Self-Improvement, Society Tagged With: assault, creepiness, creeps, creepy guy, Don't Be A Creeper, harassment

How Do You Find Redemption?

November 6, 2017 by Dr. NerdLove

How Do You Find Redemption?

If you’ve paid even vague attention to the news recently – or even just social media –  you may have been struck by the seemingly unending tidal wave of men being called out for assault, harassment and generally awful behavior. This is inherently a good thing; people who’ve been coasting along while having gotten away […]

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Filed Under: Self-Improvement, Society Tagged With: assault, be a better man, be a better person, forgiveness, harassment, redemption, self-improvement

Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Handle The Creeper At Work?

November 3, 2017 by Dr. NerdLove

Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Handle The Creeper At Work?

Hi Dr NerdLove, So, its a long story but this is what happened, and I’m not sure what to do. About a month ago, a very attractive girl moved in to my share house. I was away at the time, but when we met, I felt like we got along very well. In many ways […]

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Filed Under: Ask Dr. NerdLove Tagged With: ask dr. nerdlove, awkward crushes, closure, harassment, hook-ups, roommates, socially awkward is not an excuse

Yes, It’s Still A Creeper Move if Brad Pitt Does It

November 10, 2014 by Dr. NerdLove

Yes, It’s Still A Creeper Move if Brad Pitt Does It

One of the oft-recurring topics here at Paging Dr. NerdLove is the subject of creepers and creepy behavior.  It’s a seemingly evergreen topic because, frankly, there’s always an example of problematic behavior to point to and say “stop doing that”. Of course, as soon as anyone brings up the topic of creepy behavior, there’s the inevitable […]

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Filed Under: Men Behaving Badly, Self-Improvement, Skills, What Not To Do Tagged With: boundaries, Don't Be A Creeper, harassment

What We Talk About When We Talk About GamerGate

October 24, 2014 by Dr. NerdLove

What We Talk About When We Talk About GamerGate

Back in August, I wrote about the ongoing harassment against Zoe Quinn and Anita Sarkeesian, the then-latest attempts by the would-be gatekeepers of gaming culture trying to evict women from their formerly1 exclusive clubhouse. While it’s (depressingly) common to see outbursts like this bubble up from the underside of the Internet, it’s rare for it […]

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Filed Under: Culture, Society Tagged With: gamergate, geek culture, harassment, nerds and male privilege, zoe quinn

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