Doctor’s Note: It’s an all Ask Dr. NerdLove week as I’m traveling for the holidays. Regular columns will be resuming on Monday. Doc, I moved to a new city about six months ago to start a great new job and to be closer to my college buds. I had an awesome job right out of…
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: Bad Case Of Loving You
Hi Doc, I have a question that may pertain to broader issues of gender roles. So I have a feeling that girls don’t like me because I’m too accommodating, which is seen as a “girly” thing. Basically I apologize for shit too much. People seem to very aware that women are raised to apologize for…
Ask Dr. NerdLove: Stalemate
Hi, Doc. I sort of stumbled on to your site this morning, so I haven’t read enough of your blog to know if this question is a good fit. But, as a programmer, I’ve found that explaining a problem to someone else can often cause me to give myself new clarity and insight that helps…