Dear Dr. NerdLove: I need help with a tricky situation. We’re going to call my best friend Noel. Noel is a heterosexual woman, and I’m a heterosexual man, and we’re roommates. People think we’re a couple, and they have good reason to. We do everything together–dinner every night, coffee in the morning, tennis lessons, walking…
just friends
Should I Reach Out To My Ex, Even After They Dumped Me?
Hello Doctor! I’m a recently turned 30 cis woman. I am also a recovering alcoholic who worked at the rehab that helped me. Recently I relapsed, due to several factors, but the big one was helping a fellow person with substance abuse. This man went to the same place shortly before I did, and was…
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: When Does Rejection Stop Hurting?
What’s going on Doc, I’m in need of some advice on how to take rejection better. Not necessarily in the moment when it happens because I feel like I’ve become a pro at that, but in the days that linger on before you’ve met someone else you’re into and the person who rejected you is…
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: Are We More Than Just Friends?
Dear Dr. NerdLove: I have a friend that I’ve known since college and we’ve kept in contact well after I graduated. However, due to our own responsibilities, we had times when we wouldn’t contact each other for months at a time. But when we did reconnect, it was almost like that hiatus never happened. I…
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: What If I CAN’T “Just Be Friends?”
Hey Doc, I basically need some advice about how to move on from an ex. I dated a guy for about two and a half months. I’m in college, he just finished a few weeks before we started seeing each other. At first it seemed he was very enthusiastic and making all of the moves…
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Episode #74 – How To Escape The Friend Zone
The question of “how do I get out of The Friend Zone” is among the top Google searches out there when it comes to relationship advice. The idea of the Friend Zone as a sort of dating Stalag-17 has driven more people into the Pick Up and Red Pill community than almost any other topic. …