After years of working on herself, she’s ready to step out into the dating world. How does an asexual virgin learn how to date for the first time?
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My Boyfriend’s Kink Turns Me Off. What Do I Do?
Dear Dr. NerdLove: I am a 26-year-old gay man living in Boston. I recently started dating a man in his 30s whose biggest turn-on is having a guy lick and kiss the bottoms of his feet. At first I enjoyed watching him get so much satisfaction while I licked and kissed his feet. But now…
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What Does My Husband’s Kink Say About Our Relationship?
Hi there Dr. Nerd Love, I came across your column this morning after having oddly enough, a very unsettling/confusing discussion with my husband of 25 years the night before, about his new sexual desires. So I don’t drag this out too long, let me hit the highlights of what has prompted me to reach out…
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How Do I Stop Feeling Ashamed of Being A Virgin?
Dear Dr. NerdLove: I came across one of blog forums, and thought it may be beneficial to reach out to you. I’ve been getting a lot of shit from my family, mainly siblings and stepmom, about still being a virgin. I’m a 19 year old male coming from an extremely religious household. I was super…
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Did I Get Dumped Because of My Kink?
Dear Doc, I need your help with something. I don’t know if I screwed up or not. I (24/m/cis) am (or I guess was) dating my girlfriend (23/f/cis) for about six months. Up until two weeks ago, this was the best relationship of my life. We were deep in that whole “honeymoon period” thing you…
Do I Have To Choose Between Love and Good Sex?
Hi Doctor, Recently, I’ve be doing a lot of self reflection and realized one big issue I deal with is loneliness. However, another thing I’ve come to question is my use of porn and my consumption of porn, especially my use of hard-core material. I’ve come to realise I feel unable to consume “regular” or…
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