Dear Dr. NerdLove, I am a straight man in my mid-twenties who had had absolutely zero dating experience until relatively recently. In part thanks to inspiration from your blog, I started working towards self-improvement and tried putting myself out there more, and I finally began to get a few dates. Eventually, I had my first…
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I Visited An Escort and I Regret It. What Should I Do?
Hi Doc, hope you’re doing great. As the title says, I went to an escort a few weeks ago. Some backstory: I’m 28, never kissed a girl, never had a girlfriend and I’ve always been rejected. I always feel very lonely and sad about this, thinking that I’ll probably never have a girlfriend and I’ll…
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I Can’t Bring Myself To Have Sex and I Don’t Know What To Do…
Hello Doctor, Recently I have been frustrated, solely with myself. Because in the last few years I’ve lost 40 pounds, made impressive strides in my career for a man my age, and went from not being able to talk to anyone to making classes/groups of people screech in laughter. I say I’m proud of myself…
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Dr. NerdLove Q&A: Should You Tell Your Date That You’re A Virgin?
I’m answering your most important dating questions! If you have a question about love, sex or dating, then be sure to leave a comment. Maybe the next question I answer will be yours! This week: Should you tell women that you’re a virgin, or is it better to keep it a secret. And is dating…
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Tell Someone We’re Never Having Sex?
Hey Doc, I really enjoy your blog. It’s helped a lot with picking myself up after my long-term girlfriend cheated on me. I’m a bisexual woman in my early 20s who’s moving to a new place where I’m going to be hanging out with lovely cool nerds, some of whom I might want to date?…
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: Should I Use Porn Until I Get a Girlfriend?
Doctor’s Note: A little programming note before we get started. I’m hosting a cross-over of sorts with fantasy author Jonathan L. Howard – his character Johannes Cabal, the Necromancer will be taking over Ask Dr. NerdLove for a column to handle your questions about life, love, the afterlife and the dark arts. This is going to…
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