His girlfriend had wild sexy adventures years before they ever met and he’s feeling uncomfortable about it. How can he get over this retroactive jealousy?
madonna-whore complex
Ask Dr. NerdLove: She Had Wild Sex With Other Guys. Why Not With Me?
Hi Doc, I wonder if you can write on the topic of getting over women’s sexual histories, especially when they’ve gone through long hook-up/casual dating periods and a man has not. Or maybe about guys who’re plagued by feelings of not measuring up in experience, number of partners, degrees of wildness, etc. I think many…
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: Why Do People Say “It’s Not You, It’s Me?”
Hi there Doc, I’m a 21 year old male, I go to college, go to work, just your normal everyday man. I need help understanding why this girl isn’t interested in me anymore. It all started at my buddy’s house, let’s call him Alpha. Alpha and I were discussing how my dating life is going. I…
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Get Over My Girlfriend’s Past?
Dear Dr. NerdLove, I’m currently in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend. We’ve been together for about three months and I’ve been constantly concerned about my girlfriend’s past. I’ve known her for around seven years and as long as I’ve known her, she has always been a conservative person. She always said that she…
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Talk About My Past In Porn?
(Doctor’s Note: We’re talking about porn and sex work today. While I know that these can be divisive issues, I’m warning everyone now: I’m not going to tolerate any sort of slut-shaming in the comments. If you need to denigrate either the letter-writer or others, feel free to do so somewhere else, because it’s not…
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Fix My Sexist Boyfriend?
Hello, Doc, I’m an asexual woman in her early twenties. As much as I sometimes detest it, I really feel no sexual attraction at all, and I don’t think I ever will. Before I became familiar with the idea of asexuality, I assumed I was heterosexual with a low sex drive… but even back then…
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