Hey Doc, So I’m a guy who’s interested in having casual encounters or developing a friends with benefits situation. My issue is that I think I don’t have the right social circle for that. Now I know that this seems like I’m trying to avoid responsibility for my own failures but let me elaborate. Due…
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How To Take Back Your Power In Dating
Whenever I see people, especially men, talking about their struggles in dating, there’s one myth that comes up over and over again: the concept of who has all the power in dating. It’s never long before someone will bring up how women have all the advantages when it comes to dating. Because women – theoretically…
How Do I Relearn How To Date?
Hey Doc, So I’m 31, nonbinary, and somewhere between demisexual and non-sex-repulsed ace on the asexuality spectrum. I was in a long-term relationship off and on (mostly on) from 2009-2018, before we finally admitted to each other that our life trajectories were heading in diverging directions and our incompatibilities (primarily that we’re two very different…
How Do I Approach Women Without Making it Weird?
Hi Dr. NerdLove, First of all, thanks a lot for all the content that put out there. It’s really a treasure to have a person like you on the web when majority of dating advice on the Internet is just a single step away from turning into something worse and manipulative. Now to the question,…
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I Can’t Get A Date… What Am I Doing Wrong?
Hey there Doc, My trouble is that I don’t know how to go about dating because I don’t understand how to get to know potential partners and have them be positive towards me as well. Little introduction to me: I’m 25 years old, Never had a relationship or even things like a first kiss, finished…
I’m Afraid I’ll Be Forever Alone… And It’s Not My Fault!
Hello Sir I want to preface this letter by saying that I don’t believe that I am “forever alone” because of my looks, height, or lack of social skills. I’m 6 “1” and I’ve been told by people that I’ve met that I am fairly handsome, and although I do have social anxiety and (mild)…
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