5 Ways to Bring The Spark Back To Your Relationship

...just try to not annoy the neighbors as much this time around.

One of the hardest things that people face over the course of a long-term relationship is that the initial spark – what many in the polyamory community call “new relationship energy” –  fades. It’s an entirely natural part of settling into a relationship; the initial honeymoon period fades and what was intense and exciting becomes [...]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: Off The Leash

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Dear Dr. NerdLove, I am a 24 year old gamer lady currently engaged to my very own gamer lad. We’ve been together for three years and decided about six months ago that marriage was in the cards. He is the sweetest, most thoughtful man I have ever dated, and I look forward to spending the [...]

So You Want To Be Non-Monogamous…

METAPHOR!

So today it’s time to talk about a tricky subject: monogamy. We’ve talked about monogamy before and why it’s not our natural state, but it’s worth addressing again. Life – when stripped away of any philosophical or intellectual meaning or value – is solely about making sure that we survive long enough to spread our [...]