Hey Doc, There is this saying that, when people talk about a certain dilemma, they actually already know the right answer and just hope the other party will tell them what they want to hear, essentially giving them the go-ahead for the dumb decision they have been craving for. I’m afraid mine is one of…
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: Kobiyashi Maru’d
Dear Dr. NerdLove, My situation is probably like many you’ve heard, but I’m hoping you give me some advice on what I’m doing right/wrong. I got engaged in July to a girl I had been dating for two-and-a-half years only to have her breakup with me just a couple months later. She cited a litany…