He gets plenty of first dates, but never any second ones. Are his expectations just too low, or are his dates’ expectations too high?
physical attraction
Why Do I Never Have Chemistry With Women?
It seems like no matter what he does, women never feel that spark with him on dates. What is he doing wrong? How can he build attraction with women?
Why Do I Keep Getting Crushes on People I Don’t Like?
Dear Dr. NerdLove: I am a teenager who has a small dilemma: I often get crushes on people or fictional characters who are conventionally unattractive. They can be overweight, ugly, have terrible personalities, or be weird, but often I will have crushes on those people despite their flaws. Usually I will just look past the…
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Do I Have A Type, or Do I Have A Fetish?
Hey Doc, I need an honest opinion from you on something that I feel shame and guilt, after I give some more details: am I fetishizing women? I seem to be only attracted to very curvy women with wide hips, thick legs, “pawgs,” “bbws,” etc. I’ve dated a variety of body types throughout my twenties…
Help, My Girlfriend Found My Tinder Account and Now She Wants To Break Up
Hi Dr NerdLove My girlfriend and I have been together for over six months. We met on Tinder. This morning we were having some friendly banter about how some guys were sliding in her DMs over her latest Instagram story post. To cut a long story short she was telling me how guys would continue…
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Important Is Physical Attraction?
Hello Dr.! I’ve been reading your articles and posts for several years now, and I have a lot in common with some the other people who write to you. I’m a 36-year-old man who did well in high school and college, has done tolerably well in the workplace since I graduated (I’m far from wealthy,…
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