Dr. NerdLove is on vacation this week. Instead of running a “best of” column or a week of dead air, we have another guest post by frequent commentator, occasional gypsy princess, and friend of the blog – Squirrel. She also hosts her own blog, Crossed Wires as well as provides the occasional sounding board for articles here. …
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: Too Goddamn Perfect
Today’s Ask Dr. NerdLove is a longer and slightly more rambling question than I usually run with, but it illustrates a problem that I think a lot of younger guys (and girls, really) have that doesn’t get talked about all that often. Sometimes it’s just a case of someone you know who… Well, I should…
What Does It Mean To Be A Man?
Give love advice to dudes for long enough and eventually you come up on the question of “What does it mean to be a man?” At first, this question may sound like basic Philosophy 101 material, the same sort of intellectual masturbation that we think is, like, soooo deep after a couple of joints or…
The Madonna-Whore Complex and You
Hey Jenny, Jenny Why are you crying? There’s a beauty of a moon in the sky But I guess when you’ve been leading such a sheltered life You never lift your head and look so high The process of getting better at dating and relationships – especially for men – is a tricky one. As…
Change Your Attitude: How Your Mentality Affects Your Love Life
I’ve noticed something lately. Something surprisingly common, especially amongst geeky guys. Especially among geeky guys who’re trying to get better at dating. There’s a lot of you venting your frustration about your dating lives, in your letters to me and in the comments on the blog. You’ve been taking my advice. You’re approaching the women you’re…
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