Ask Dr. NerdLove: Nothing’s Gonna Stop Us Now

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Hey Doc, I need your help with some things: I suppose the first problem here is what my friend calls “nice guy syndrome,” where someone could be a really kind and generous person yet never be in a relationship ever. It’s similar to your top post about “nice guys,” and while I worried that I [...]

Take It Like A Man

"Your heartfelt pleading has made me realize just how attracted I am to you," said nobody, ever.

If you go by a lot of the advice being handed out to guys about dating, you would think that getting dates and getting laid is simple: act as alpha as possible, remember that women are gold-digging, status-climbing whores who only want the highest status males (and will ignore, use and/or cheat on everyone else) [...]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: He Never Calls…

Dear Dr. Nerd Love, (m.d?, ph.D?) (Doctor’s Note: Dr. NerdLove is not a real doctor.) Thanks for writing such a female-friendly advice column for men.  It’s very refreshing.  However, I’m a woman and I need some help too!  I’m 26 and single.  I’ve never really had a relationship that lasts longer than 5-6 months, if [...]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: The Back-Up Plan

Dear Doctor Nerdlove, I don’t know what to do.  About half a year ago, I started hanging out with these two girls that lived a few floors down from me named, Jane and Lynne.  I thought their roommate was cute, so I started hanging around their apartment.  Although that didn’t work out, I ended up [...]

Conquer Approach Anxiety

"So we were thinking of going to this wine bar later... would you like to join us?"

One of the hardest parts of meeting new people, for men and women, is that initial approach. Whether you’re in class, at the bar, hanging out at a party or at the bookstore, the idea of approaching that hottie you’ve had your eye on for a while sends shivers down your spine. You take a step [...]

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