Ask Dr. NerdLove: Help, My Boyfriend Won’t Grow Up

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Dear Dr. Nerdlove, I find myself in a quandary. I met this amazing girl on various smoke breaks outside of work, as she had business in the same building. We hit it off, and she’s a huge nerd too, but she’s been dealing with a lot of loss at home and has been traveling back […]

The Power of Uncertainty

"I know, right?"

One of the things I like to do as a dating coach is to keep up with the latest research on relationships and dating. So naturally, I like to read the latest studies coming from esteemed peer-reviewed journals such as, er. Esquire Magazine. Joking aside, the article Here’s What Happened When Our Bosses Forced Us […]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Can I Be A Better Wingman?

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Hi Doc, I have a question which is a bit different from your usual fare, but I hope you can help me with. I’m a gay man in my 20s and I like to go out with my friends. Many of these friends are single women, who are interested in finding – if not the […]

How To Avoid Drama In Your Relationship

The less charitable might say "have their head up their own ass."

We talk a lot about “drama” when it comes to relationships and how to avoid it. Drama – in this case, unnecessary or manufactured conflict – is frequently the boogieman of dating; go to any online dating site and you’ll see hordes of people declaring that they’re a “drama-free zone” or have “no time for […]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: Why Won’t He Date Me?

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Hello, Dr. NerdLove. I am an 18 year old British female. In July I met a 21 year old Canadian male whilst travelling. He took me on a couple dates and we went to Rome together for four days and nights. We slept together a lot and visited lots things and ate out each night. […]