Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Can I Be A Better Wingman?

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Hi Doc, I have a question which is a bit different from your usual fare, but I hope you can help me with. I’m a gay man in my 20s and I like to go out with my friends. Many of these friends are single women, who are interested in finding – if not the […]

How To Avoid Drama In Your Relationship

The less charitable might say "have their head up their own ass."

We talk a lot about “drama” when it comes to relationships and how to avoid it. Drama – in this case, unnecessary or manufactured conflict – is frequently the boogieman of dating; go to any online dating site and you’ll see hordes of people declaring that they’re a “drama-free zone” or have “no time for […]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: Why Won’t He Date Me?

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Hello, Dr. NerdLove. I am an 18 year old British female. In July I met a 21 year old Canadian male whilst travelling. He took me on a couple dates and we went to Rome together for four days and nights. We slept together a lot and visited lots things and ate out each night. […]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: When Is It My Turn?

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Dear Dr. NerdLove, My boyfriend and I have been together several years and we’ve experimented in lots of things sexually as he was more experienced than I was. I really want to do some of the things he has done, such as threesomes with guys and girls, but he doesn’t want to since we are in a […]

How To Introduce Kink Into Your Relationship

Say what you will about her writing, E.L. James has single-handedly put braces on the children of hand-cuff manufacturers around the world.

Kink is becoming a hot topic again.  50 Shades of Grey‘s movie adaptation opening on Valentine’s Day weekend has put bondage and kink and James Dornan on the front page of magazines and blogs all over again, while shameless knock-off factory Asylum is tantalizing nerds by casting Charisma Carpenter in Bound1 Meanwhile sex shops around the country are […]