Ask Dr. NerdLove: Do I Have To Choose?

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Dear Your Doctorship, I was hoping you might help me out from the lady side of the spectrum with a few tips for approaching nerd-inclined men. I have a great boyfriend. He’s a smart, nice person who listens to me, is generally up for my crazy schemes, and can put on a fantastic “that’s so… […]

These 5 Conversations Will Save Your Relationship

5 Conversations That Will Save Your Relationship

How well do you know your partner? Oh sure, you’re reasonably sure that she’s not secretly a Deep One or an intelligent tapeworm wearing that body like a flesh-suit… but how well do you sync on the make-or-break issues? If you’re like most couples, you may not actually know. Many couples are very quick to assume that they’re […]

What Couples Can Learn From Gomez and Morticia Addams

I’m not a fan of love stories. I realize this sounds odd coming from someone who teaches people how make others fall in love with them, but stay with me for a moment here. The most famous, beloved love stories of all time all end in the death of one or both of the lovers. […]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: Did I Break Bro Code?

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Dear Doc, I have a question about “cock blocking” and the sketchy at best concept of the “bro code”. Okay. So I’m on my way to chill at my friend’s house, and he tells me he has a girl over so I ask him if he wants alone time or whatever. He tells me it’s […]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: When Do I Tell My Date I’m Trans?

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Hey, Doctor So, I’m thirty, ostensibly male, and have been working on and improving with dating using OKCupid. I also recently realized that I’m trans. I’m not sure yet how far I want to transition to female, even putting logistics and economics aside. However, I still do exclusively prefer women, and assuming I had a […]