Trying to meet amazing women can be incredibly intimidating, even terrifying. There’s an understandable fear of judgement or rejection, especially since meeting women requires deliberately making yourself vulnerable to a relative stranger. There’s also the understandable worry of what your social success says about you and your worth as a person. However, so much of…
self-confidence
How Do I Stop Feeling Ugly?
Dear Dr. NerdLove: This’s the first time I wrote to someone so apologise for mistakes or missed details that are important. I am 27 year old Middle Eastern guy. Highly educated and have a big circle of friends. I’m currently living in a European country but I lived in few different ones and my dating…
This Is How You Break Your Self-Limiting Beliefs
I want to talk to you for a moment about a client I had. He, like a lot of my coaching clients, wanted to know what it takes to be someone women want to date. This caught me off guard; this was a guy who had a lot going for him. He was tall, good looking…
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How Do I Learn To Love Myself?
Dear Dr. NerdLove: A common truism you hear a lot about dating is “You have to learn to love yourself before you can love anyone else”. I’m bringing that up so I can tie dating to something I want to pick your brain on, which is about self-love. I find the messaging around how one…
I Turned My Life Around. So Why Can’t I Find A Date?
Hi Dr. NerdLove, I turned my life around, but still can’t find a date. I suppose I’m your typical young adult geek. I live in a small apartment with collectible toys on shelves. I play video games, gossip on pop culture websites and don’t sleep well unless I’ve watched an episode of Star Trek to…
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Am I Dating The Wrong People?
Dear Doctor: I (28M) wonder how I can stop second guessing myself in dating. Everything seems to be going right. Yet, I wonder: is it? When do I know that I’ve become successful at dating? As background, I’ve only been dating for a year, when, after the pandemic, I started thinking, “maybe I should find…