Doctor’s Note: this column includes discussion of self-harm Hi Doc, I don’t know how to explain this, so I’ll give some background. I’m a 25 guy who never kissed a girl or held hands and so on. I’ve been rejected all my life and in many mean ways, always being told I was too ugly,…
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Overcoming Helplessness
One of the most frustrating parts of trying to build an amazing life — especially when you’re working on your dating and social skills — is the feeling of helplessness. There’s this very real and very palpable sense of feeling like you’re stuck, unable to make any progress. You’ve been working as hard as you…
Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Cope With Guilt?
(Doctor’s Note: This letter deals with discussion of suicide.) Dear Dr NerdLove, I’m a 30 year old guy who is in his first real relationship. I had essentially given up the idea of ever having a relationship, and was honestly quite happy with my “forever alone” status. I’m a semi-professional sportsman and my only other…
Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Can I Let Go of My Past?
Hey Dr. NerdLove, I have a question for you that I haven’t been able to find an answer to anywhere else. So, I am a 26 year old guy who has been single for about 10 years now and I solely hold the blame for this for refusing to put myself out there, a couple…
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