5 Ways You Sabotage Your Love Life

Behind every hot man is a line of people who are absolutely sick of his shit.

One of the most important things I can teach people about dating is simple: dating success is 80% attitude and 20% skill and presentation. No matter how good looking you may be or how suave you may think you are, a shitty attitude is going to sabotage your success and snatch defeat from the jaws […]

These Self-Limiting Beliefs Are Holding You Back

"Oh cool, so I've finally succeeded at something."

Here’s a secret a lot of dating coaches won’t tell you: most of your dating problems are in your head. This isn’t to say that they don’t exist – it’s that most people’s sticking points tend to be the result of self-limiting beliefs. And the crazy part is that we tend to want to keep them. In fact, more […]

Starting From Zero

Starting From Zero

One of the common complaints I hear from readers is that they have absolutely no dating history or experience and don’t know where to begin. And in fairness, while I do have a number of articles in The Basics that cover the dating fundamentals, sometimes it can be hard to know just where to begin. After all, […]

Leveling Up: Developing An Abundance Mentality

Welcome to 2014 folks. It’s a new year and ripe for potential and improvement.   If you’re like most folks, you’ve made some New Year’s resolutions. Perhaps getting better at dating is one of them… Usually around this time, I make my annual tirade about how New Year’s resolutions are wastes of time but I want to […]

Redefining Failure

My shitty graphic novel is still better than the imaginary one other people just keep talking about.

I’m a failure. And I’m ok with that. There are a lot of things I’ve failed at.  I’m a failure as a professional artist and photographer. I’m a failure as a comic publisher. I’m sure you could probably find plenty of women in my past who would quite happily tell you that I’m a failure […]